"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Last time I'll bother you guys...

JackPrescott

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PHAT Rabbit said:
JP does make a valid point though. You are head over heels for this guy when you can apparently go out and get any other guy you want. So why stick to this scumbag? What does he do to up the sexual tension to make you want to respond to him the way you do?

I don't think JP's post was made in earnest joking at your benefit, but so we can learn from this guy. He obviously has some game... why not foil his strategies to this community? Where better to spill the beans? After all, maybe once you get this off your chest you can realize he's not so special.
Exactly. Sunny is a prime example of the Modern Female. Do any of you read the comic strip "Luann?" In it, There is a little hottie neighbor that Luann's brother loves, but alas, she "Friendszoned" his ass, as she is still madly and deeply in love with "Dirk the Jerk" who emotionally, and physically abused her, as well as cheated on her ass Dirk is an alpha male, jock-type, musclehead with a fast car, arrogant and rich. The brother is an AFC, who mastrubates nightly to her photo.

I see Sunny as a version of this comic strip character. She would "friendszone" any one of us, would we ask her out, but her ex? She would probably kneel before him in a public setting, and feed him grapes while he got his shoes shined.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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