"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Last time I'll bother you guys...

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PHAT Rabbit said:
JP does make a valid point though. You are head over heels for this guy when you can apparently go out and get any other guy you want. So why stick to this scumbag? What does he do to up the sexual tension to make you want to respond to him the way you do?

I don't think JP's post was made in earnest joking at your benefit, but so we can learn from this guy. He obviously has some game... why not foil his strategies to this community? Where better to spill the beans? After all, maybe once you get this off your chest you can realize he's not so special.
Exactly. Sunny is a prime example of the Modern Female. Do any of you read the comic strip "Luann?" In it, There is a little hottie neighbor that Luann's brother loves, but alas, she "Friendszoned" his ass, as she is still madly and deeply in love with "Dirk the Jerk" who emotionally, and physically abused her, as well as cheated on her ass Dirk is an alpha male, jock-type, musclehead with a fast car, arrogant and rich. The brother is an AFC, who mastrubates nightly to her photo.

I see Sunny as a version of this comic strip character. She would "friendszone" any one of us, would we ask her out, but her ex? She would probably kneel before him in a public setting, and feed him grapes while he got his shoes shined.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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