"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Last Set to Faliure: Yes or No

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Da Realist

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Not really. You just break your muscles down further and require more time for them to heal. Plus that goes more into endurance instead of strength and power.
 

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BigWillyStyle said:
In order to maximise muscle growth, is it best to do last set reps to failure?
Why not? Unless you're a powerlifter getting close to a meet or something.

if your goal is bodybuilding and putting on as much mass as possible I'd say yes. I would only advise against going to failure on every set though. Yet if it's your top set take it all they way. If you're doing some pressing or saying curling even drop a "Rest pause set after. To take it another level. (do your top set to failure and then resting only about 10-12 secs and picking up the weight again for a few more reps)

This guy for instance shows true "muscle failure" Which I think most should strive for if size is the goal. http://www.youtube.com/user/thewarrior1#p/u/24/oNviVgepF-E his other vids are great to demonstrate the intensity needed to make drastic changes in size/strength.

He does 3 rest pauses...which is for more advanced lifters though (a la dc). Most of us are fine with just 1.

Even if you don't write down what numbers your pushing you should always remember to strive for more reps or more weight on your top sets (and at times just perfect form). This will of course mean hitting failure at times to surpass a plateau.
 

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NEVER push to failure,that's how you damage muscles.

I have done drop sets to 5 lbs. before though.

Start off curling 30lbs. dumbbells and do them until you can't,drop 5lbs,do them till you can't rinse repeat. I only do that once every 6 months or so though.
 
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