"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dude now that she's single I think you should go for it, give her a call and tell her you are sorry.


















Dude I'm totally joking, you need to get a hold of yourself. Your kind of instigating her as well. Just leave her alone. If you have to contact her be polite.

You know what pisses off a girl more than you getting angry with her, you not even acknowledging her. Don't let it show that she is getting to you. Just Be cool.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by comote
Dude now that she's single I think you should go for it, give her a call and tell her you are sorry.


















Dude I'm totally joking, you need to get a hold of yourself. Your kind of instigating her as well. Just leave her alone. If you have to contact her be polite.

You know what pisses off a girl more than you getting angry with her, you not even acknowledging her. Don't let it show that she is getting to you. Just Be cool.
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I won't be contacting her, I want nothing to do with her...when she was here yesterday I just pretended that she wasn't there and it was so easy...

what do you mean by Your kind of
instigating her as well
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she has gone I woke up this monring feeling really good and that things are different now...should I mention that she took the house key?...well I did ha ha ..lol...I called the landlady to get it back for me.
 
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geeez. Im glad Im cool with my roommate. She drives me crazy sometimes but after reading all of that Im fortunate.
 
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