Last minute Valentines date!! NEED ADVICE!!

[Ken785]

ok so i was at work and this HB 8.9, who ive been flirting with for the last few weeks came up to me and asked me what i was doing for valentines day and i was like "nothing, how bout u?" then shes like "nothing" then i said ... "well you wanna do something tonight then?"..she kinda giggles and later gives me her number.... the problem...

she is working till 9 tonight. by the time she gets off everything will be closed. you guys think a movie is appropiate? i was thinking i can get some kino going by watching boogyman or something. anyways...thats the only thing i can think of...HELP!!

you guys also think i should buy her something? i mean it is valentines day and just going to a movie is kinda lame...even though it seems to be the last resort... QUICK REPLYS PLEASE!! Thanks guys.

 

[exwhyzee]

I dont think you can fail on this one, just make sure you act like you know what you are doing-if its taking her to a movie-cookin dinner for/with her-just stay confindent and have a good time. She knows its last minute, so you can just relax. I wouldnt get her anything, maybe a hello kiss to get things going would be nice.

Stay confident, stay cool.

 

[alphawolfx]

who the f.uck wants to go to a stinking MOVIE on valentines?

and she doesn't want a GIFT either

she wants to have FUN time and possibly make out with/f.uck a cute guy - that's you

take her to the beach, and have a picnic - lame but better than a movie

OR if you want to watch a movie, rent one and have her watch it at your house

OR... take her dancing - a lot of clubs are open tonight because of v-day

i'm not too good with date ideas either, it seems... hahha

who else has advice for this guy?

 

[alphawolfx]

ah! cook dinner and watch a movie at your place... implies sex, which is what she wants on v-day

 

[Ken785]

kinda live with my parents guys...

 

[xhikari]

well how bout her?? does she live with her parents???

 

[BLUEox117]

dude were trying to help u, rent a hotel for god sakes, jeez ! u cant be that poor.

 

[alphawolfx]

take her to a lake or a golf course with sand and a lake

steal your daddy's liqour and celebrate with her

don't get more drunk than her or you'll have whiskey-d.ick, and don't let her get too drunk either

but just chill with her and then f.uck her if you can

 

[exwhyzee]

Hey Man I hope everything went smoothly, if you dont mind I'd like to hear/see a play by play on the crucial moments.

Peace!

 

[Ken785]

aww man this b!tch is fvcked up!!!

she told me shed call me at 9 when she got off. i wait till 9:20 and call her and asked if we was still on...heres how the convo went...

HB: Hello...
Ken785: Hey you still wanna hang out tonight?
HB: I dont know, are you going to do tonight...
Ken785: Well its 9:20...all the good places are about to close, so its kinda last minute, wanna go see a movie?
HB: uhh...well im going home. hey did you leave a rose in my car?
Ken785: no.
HB: Somebody left a rose in my car...
Ken785: Alright...it was me (i really didnt)
HB: are you sure? you better not be lying...
Ken785: nah...im just trying to take credit for it.

then she said something i forgot...

Ken785: so you still wanna see that movie?
HB: i guess thats the only thing left to do huh?
Ken785: yeah.
HB: well we can go tommorow...i go to school at 2...we can go see it earlier before i go.
Ken785: yeah i guess thats cool.
HB: you wanna call me or ill call you?
Ken785: you call me. alright bye.
HB: Bye.

Isnt this b!tch fvcked up?? she agrees to hang out, then gives me her number and tells me to call her (i never asked for it), then she blows me off.

i work with this girl...im thinknig if she even calls tommorow im not gonna pick up, or im gonig to say im busy or some sh!t.

How should i react to her at work now? should i be a little ****y and be like "damn...i cant believe you didnt take the chance to go out with Ken785..."

or sometrhing liek that?...what would you guys do??? advice please. this is the most fvcked up regection i have ever gotten, especially on a day like this...

 

[Dapper Swindler]

I think it is a universal rule that when a girl asks what you are doing for any time, do not say "nothing", especially on V-day. It makes you sound like you have no life and are boring. You want to sound like you are free but you still have stuff to do. I would have said something like "I have some errands to run and then maybe I'll chill with my friends. Whatever I'm in the mood for." Maybe that's not the best example but that's the idea.

 

[Dingus]

DUDE!!!

When she you called you should have just said "Come on over to my place and eat. I'm cooking (such and such) for dinner. We can watch a movie or something. Nothing special but, hell, I'm bored. OH! I forgot, I have some wine too which would be great with (such and such)."

She was wondering who that rose was from. I'm guessing it was an ex bf that she still likes or something similar. She obviously wanted the night open to find out who that rose came from and probably knew it was someone from her recent past.

Just bad luck on your part.

 

[Ken785]

i dont have my own place. juste wanted to hang out with her thats all.

 

[exwhyzee]

Damn, almost sounded too good to be true. I guess she was looking for someone to whisk her off her feet, who woulda known. I mean especially considering the last minute timing of it all. Its just one b*ch, dont let it effect your confidence, her loss yah know?

Also try to feel more comfortable at home with the parents, I dont think it would be such a big deal if you two ended up cookin a mean or watching a meal together...Even though it may have been ackward to be in the same house as your parents, I think you could have made a move...If you look at it the right way it gives you an advantage, it shows that your not some wierdo, I mean you wouldnt tell her that you just dont have parents...right?

Honesty helps, if you cant be completely mysterious all the time, Im sure she has parents too...Remember to be confident, dont let your parents, or anyone/thing weaken that or deter it.

Goodluck

 

[alphawolfx]

i think his parents would not be too comfortable with them "watching a meal together"

 

[exwhyzee]

ahh my bad, i meant having a meal, and watching a movie together....

thanks for bringing it to my attention so i could clear it up

 

[Ken785]

how do you guys think i should react to her at work? she says shes gonna call today which i doubt but if she does then im not picking up. what would you guys say?

 

[Ken785]

help?

 

[BigWillyStyle]

I just realised how gay these rating systems appear to be.

 

[Iguana]

Am I the only one who thinks that taking a girl out to a movie theater is the most boring date ever?

Iguana
Peace & Metal