"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Last minute resistance

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Hey guys my first post here...

Basically got pretty drunk at a house party.. Ended up walking back home to a friends with a chick 5-6ish.. We got into bed pretty quick and she said shes freezing and i should warm her up ;) so I jumped to the occaision and got into her bed.. we started talking bout school and uni and careers.. .eventually ended up talking bout relationships and how she doesent believe in love anymore.. well during high school anyway...

She prefers random hook ups so she doesent get emotionaly hurt.. literally what I said to myself when I found this site.. So we started making out.. tonguing but she wouldnt return :s which made me seem as if I was pushing.. but I kept going.. hands went under her shirt.. little massage of the breasts and eventually the hand slipped down to the panties and oh man.. was she wet she tells me in my ear clearly mmm I'm so wet.. But everytime tried to slip a finger in she grabs my hand and pulls it back up... :cuss: thing is... she would let me go further and then suddenly she would tease by saying oopps sleepy time and completley turn around.. :cuss: arggh... it was so frustratiing as I continuously got her to turn around... second thing was I was enjoying giving so much.... after that she just kept on teasing and not letting me in...:(
I'm assuming this is last minute resistance...

HOW DO I GET IN THE NEXT TIME THIS SITUATION ARISES???


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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I would like to know as well, my last 3 girls gave me LMR I had no time to freeze out because of the settings involved. What causes some girls to give you LMR and others not.
 

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sounds like she wasn't interested enough or feels she's entitled to 'more'. Just leave her to sleep alone and get a better girl next time.
 

jeffthechef

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always maintain the position of power

it's always been this way, men desire sex more than women...although many studies have shown that women love it just as much, if not more

however, it seems as though men are definitely more eager to **** more women..basically...men need more women for sex..but women prefer lots of sex with one man..and it is biological..men can pump sperm....while women have to preserve their fewer eggs...although sex has become more of an activity, some biological remnants remain..

anyways......she knew you wanted it more than she did...at least she played it that way...this may not work for you..but "it works 100% of the time 80% of the time"...get her to give before you do..you can initiate first but get her to give more than you do...remember the golden ration...1.66666666666...

so for every 3 things she gives..give back 2...maybe consider it in minutes...or hours heh..3 minutes/hours from her = 2minutes/ hours from you

just get her to want it more than you
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LOL! This cracks me up. She obviously likes you, and she's ****teasing. That being said, I bet she's testing you, to see if you'll keep trying like an anxious guy, give up like an AFC, or call her bluff like a man. Next time this happens, I'd suggest leaving her there alone, saying "Call me when you really want it. I'm done with these games. " and walking off. It's win-win. She definitely won't be able to stop thinking about you, and it might get you laid as well. Good luck! ;)
 

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LinkinParkROX said:
LOL! This cracks me up. She obviously likes you, and she's ****teasing. That being said, I bet she's testing you, to see if you'll keep trying like an anxious guy, give up like an AFC, or call her bluff like a man. Next time this happens, I'd suggest leaving her there alone, saying "Call me when you really want it. I'm done with these games. " and walking off. It's win-win. She definitely won't be able to stop thinking about you, and it might get you laid as well. Good luck! ;)
When I see your user name, straight away I imagine a stupid highschool kid chilling with a LP T-shirt (I like LP but not the point) and shouting 'lolz0r I'm great with teh womens, LP4LYFE'.

Then I read your posts and realise you've taken time to write them and you don't abbreviate English with bullshi7 chat jargon, net speak; which shows pleasant incongruence with my original opinion.

The actual content of your post is even more surprising, because I know it's sound advice because I've been there.
So basically you have high school traits, above average intelligence and maturity.
That's a strange high-schooler mix right there.
 

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yeesh jeffthechef, youre first and last sentence are good, but all the jargon in the middle can be cut. i mean golden ratio? analyze much? i can tell its youre style and thats okay but at least for most people it isnt much help counting each passing minute just so it fits this golden rule of yours. no offense intended, just saying, sometimes the stuff you say is.. out there. i don't mind dabbing into philosophy but trying to get her to 'give' minutes to you and then giving 2/3s of that time back is, well hopeless and frankly i dont know where you got that lol.
 

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Rofl... Thanks for the advice guys... Time to move on to a new target this sat ;)

Any tips on how how much alcohol I should consumer? As I've noticed it has impaired my game quite a bit...I would like to enjoy considering exams are over and this party is going to be MASSIVE.. cops are probs going to turn up at around 1:30 so I might have to speed up my game ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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