"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PRMoon

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Okay be sure you read the entire post before you comment please.

I've been talking to this girl at work, not really getting a good read but I figured I'd ask her out anyway. I couldn't gather any solid intel on what her social life is like through my investigations prior to asking her out but that's not a significant fact either. Oneof my coworkers is pursuing her as well but I figured my PUA skills would have won out. We had a company party yesterday and I observed the two of them and he definately played agressive with her. He also kept trying to point out other girls to me maybe to try to steer me in another direction maybe to try to help me out I dunno. Anyway he claims they made out in a subtle way to me today (which may or may not have happened). Anyway we were suppose to meet tonight at 9 with me getting off work at 7 and her at 8. 8:05 rolls around and she txt me that we have to reschedule cause she just got home and her friend has been waiting and she's pretty sure her husband hit her. "sorry" I txt her back handle your buisness we'll talk later.

Whatever the reason, whatever the circumstance I HAVE to next this girl. She's here by undateable and blacklisted with no explinations or trials. I could have been out gamed, which I'll admit is likely or maybe lack of reads/perspective on my part. Either way there are more fish in the sea and I won't wait or try for something that involves me doing too much work without a prized reward.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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avrilishot

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I think your doing the right thing. by the way im glad you stayed positive by saying "Either way there are more fish in the sea" good job. sometimes thats what I have to remember.
 

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You should just ignore her, let her chase you, and Show your a Man, you dont cancel on me, or disrespect me
 

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Hehe it's nice to have options. I hooked up with the playmate that same night and then yesterday she introduced me to a hot stripper who's looking for "a boy toy" who i'll nail later this week. Things could have gone better with this one...like getting a free massage, but other then that I came out winner because I didn't sweat this one.

I must have done something very right in my last life because I'm a blessed man.
 
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