"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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large pore sizes

dude04

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i have huge pores. they are likes dots in the game connect the dots on my face. is there any medications to treat this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Luveno

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There are no medications to treat this. However, there are options to mask it, and prevent worsening of the condition.

You should wear SPF 60 sunscreen on your face every day. If you are going to be out in the sun for a long period of time, re-apply every 2 hours. This will prevent the collagen in your skin from weakening, which would in turn accentuate the size of your pores. Everyone should be doing this anyway. Sun damage is what causes aging.

Furthermore, there are a multitude of exfoliant creams and face-washes on the market that are believed, by anecdote, to clean out pores and thus reduce their apparent size. However, I know of no true evidence concerning this.

Finally, and perhaps most effectively, cosmetics can reduce the appearance of pores. Though you might think this sounds "gay", try to consult with a cosmetologist in your area for an opinion on what can be done to decrease your pore size.
 

wiggamonkey

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you should check out a procedure called microdermabrasion. it's supposed to be a very powerful exfoliation treatment that gives your skin a much mroe refined look and minimizes the appearance of a number of things, such as pores, acne scars, and sun spots.

I'm pretty sure you can buy take-home kits from the drug store to do it, but it might be safer to see a dermatologist. try googling it. good luck
 
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