"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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large pore sizes

dude04

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i have huge pores. they are likes dots in the game connect the dots on my face. is there any medications to treat this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Luveno

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There are no medications to treat this. However, there are options to mask it, and prevent worsening of the condition.

You should wear SPF 60 sunscreen on your face every day. If you are going to be out in the sun for a long period of time, re-apply every 2 hours. This will prevent the collagen in your skin from weakening, which would in turn accentuate the size of your pores. Everyone should be doing this anyway. Sun damage is what causes aging.

Furthermore, there are a multitude of exfoliant creams and face-washes on the market that are believed, by anecdote, to clean out pores and thus reduce their apparent size. However, I know of no true evidence concerning this.

Finally, and perhaps most effectively, cosmetics can reduce the appearance of pores. Though you might think this sounds "gay", try to consult with a cosmetologist in your area for an opinion on what can be done to decrease your pore size.
 

wiggamonkey

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you should check out a procedure called microdermabrasion. it's supposed to be a very powerful exfoliation treatment that gives your skin a much mroe refined look and minimizes the appearance of a number of things, such as pores, acne scars, and sun spots.

I'm pretty sure you can buy take-home kits from the drug store to do it, but it might be safer to see a dermatologist. try googling it. good luck
 
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