"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lao Tzu

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Lao Tzu is a great Chinese philosopher. Those familiar with history and literature may remember his famous contribution, Daodejing (Tao Te Ching). He's also the "founder of philosophical Taoism, and a deity in religious Taoism and traditional Chinese religions" (Wiki). It's been debated if Lao's the sole author of the book, though deserves most of the credit where credit is due.

One of the greatest gifts a Don Juan can give to himself is knowing himself well.



The wisdom of Lao Tzu's Tao Te Ching is in developing a higher awareness of self. His intent was for students to return to a natural state and freedom from desires.

Here are some of his famous passages:

“Simplicity, patience, compassion.
These three are your greatest treasures.
Simple in actions and thoughts, you return to the source of being.
Patient with both friends and enemies,
you accord with the way things are.
Compassionate toward yourself,
you reconcile all beings in the world.”

“Knowing others is intelligence;
knowing yourself is true wisdom.
Mastering others is strength;
mastering yourself is true power.”

“Do you have the patience to wait until your mud settles and the water is clear?”

“A man with outward courage dares to die; a man with inner courage dares to live.”

“A leader is best
When people barely know he exists
Of a good leader, who talks little,
When his work is done, his aim fulfilled,
They will say, “We did this ourselves.”

“He who conquers others is strong; he who conquers himself is mighty"

“Fill your bowl to the brim and it will spill. Keep sharpening your knife and it will blunt.”
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This reminded me of a movie called "The Tao of Steve". I found it interesting when I watched it in the middle of learning game, it mixes taoism and seduction.
 
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