"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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AdrenalynJunkee

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Alright, does anybody else think that taking another language can offer another way into DJ'ing, by means of 'helping' with the language, or if you're fluent and fluid when speaking it, its rather impressive. I've got girls always asking me to teach them spanish stuff, because i know quite a bit (its like a 7th-8th grade level in mexico, but probably like senior in HS level in america as far as spanish goes)...plus being fluid allows words to roll off your tongue easier, i find myself speaking smoother (used to have a minor speach problem, not really noticeable)

Anybody else think knowing other languages might help?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fitch

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It does.

Even in seduction. I.E.: playful saying comments in spanish, french, italian, hebrew or russian -- for e.g.

It also enhanes one's Eng. vocab.
 

Magico

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Foreign langs are very cool. Not only for DJing, if this is the only reason to take foreign lang, than give it another thought.

Do it if you like it. I personally love learning them and am sorry I didn't do it before. English is not my mother lang, and now I am learning spanish and am loving it.

You are making yourself open for whole another world, a new culture. It will deffinitely add to your english (or whatever your mother tongue) vocab.

By the way a HB8.5 is coming over in a few days to test my spanish skills. Boy oh boy!
 

SomeRandomGuy

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I’ve found that it helps a lot. For example here in Puerto Rico people that can speak English nicely are rare to find. But the ones that do have like a “special bond” immediately. Also there are more girls than guys that know how to "listen" to English so you can find a nice girl that speaks English and Spanish and kind of have like a secret language with her since nobody else will understand it that fast. I for one know 3 languages and it helps you get to know all type of woman and friends.
 

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I.E.: playful saying comments in spanish, french, italian, hebrew or russian
I see you mention Hebrew, are you Jewish too?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TinyFzzyKiwi

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Foreign languages are fun I think, the only part that sucks for me is I forget alot of it over the summer (I'm taking it through highschool), and I don't study it nearly enough to be good with it.

But, you never know when you might have need of it, I've had multiple times where I met someone who didn't know english, but we were actually able to have a small conversation because I understood some spanish. It made me feel damn good.
 

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I learnt Italian in HS, now take German classes and I have just started teaching myself French, and a bit of Spanish.
Not only is learning languages fun, it is useful when you travel to other countries, are applying for a job and even for just communicating in your own country. For you Americans, to learn Spanish would be especially great because so many people there speak it (and we all know how beautiful those Latinas are :cool: ). As others says, there is an instant bond between ppl when you speak their language and few others do. Plus it's always fun saying something to a girl in another language and she has no idea what your saying. I'd definitely recommend you start learning one.
 
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