"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Language barrier.

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I just moved to Germany a year ago. I speak relatively good for my time here. But pickup is unexistable..
Because of my language I have no social circle and coming from my last country I was one of those guys everybody knew and liked, I was on top of my game with girls and just had an incredible social life. And now...I can't approach, I have no friends(I'm usually really picky when it comes to close friends I don't hang out with anybody),
I don't go anywhere except school and gym but stay at home and study and do **** I'd normally do but a lot more...

What do you think, is this a problem? Should I just start approaching with this ****ing accent? Should I learn perfectly and then start out?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Learn German?
 
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kurcina said:
I'm talking about right now, I will speak great german in 2-3 years
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If that's the case, then I would focus on learning what you need to know to get by for now...let her teach you along the way. (Which will be getting her to invest)
 
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Maybe you could use it to your advantage.

Tell the girls you just moved there and you don't know much German and if they could teach you some.

If you're good looking enough, they'll take you up on it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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