You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You are confusing being academically gifted with being willing to work harder. Show me a white dude who spends 17 hours a day studying for exams (like a typical Chinese student).
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
OK, "academically successful".
believing this myth is a good reason on why I didn’t try at school. In reality, smart people put in more hours regardless of gifted or work harder mentality.
The Bureau of Labor data shows those with high school diplomas had a 4% unemployment rate. College grads 2% unemployment rate. The government data from 2003-2023 doesn't show a time with too many college graduates, although we don't know what 2023-2024 will bring.
A lot of college graduates might be employed but not working jobs that need a bachelor's degree. There's a reason for the stereotype of the college educated Starbucks barista.The Bureau of Labor data shows those with high school diplomas had a 4% unemployment rate. College grads 2% unemployment rate. The government data from 2003-2023 doesn't show a time with too many college graduates, although we don't know what 2023-2024 will bring.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Idk I feel like it’s a little over exaggerated, but statistics show you are always better off with a degree vs just a diploma. I know plenty of people that had a decent paying job without a degree, but once they lost it couldn’t replace the income previously.
The United States economy has changed in the last 50-60 years. For those who graduated high school prior to 1970-1975, it was possible to have a high school diploma and support yourself/a family. You didn't even need a trade certificate either. Plenty of high school graduates finished high school and went to work in manufacturing/factory jobs or other lesser skilled blue collar jobs.
Sports are probably the best meritocracies, although there is probably discrimination on coaching staff hires. The NFL implemented the "Rooney Rule" which stipulated a minimum # of minority interviews for head coaching vacancies. And guess how minority candidates felt being interviewed and passed over? Just more tokenism dressed up as progressivism. The NBA has long been friendly to blacks and other minorities and now has female assistant coaches - but not because of the Supreme Court or whatever.
those are two different things. With good intent, affirmative action had a purpose, but it got dragged in other directions to the point of no return. Plus, I think it has been a cop out for some people making excuses.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
yeah but not for everyone, why should one group of people get crapped on while others do not?
Who specifically are you referring to. The purpose of the Supreme court is to uphold the Constitution, irregardless or who it ends up benefiting. When the court rules like this, society ultimately is the winner.
Agree with your first paragraph, this is an important function of the court, to review past decisions and correct potential misguided rulings.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I do not see how legacy status can be considered in agreement with personal responsibility/accountability, fairness, and freedom like you said, but affirmative action is not. We can go and find a far-fetched example of affirmative action and punish the majority, but we are going to just pretend the legacy system is 100% perfect and ignore that?
I feel like this is an entirely different topic that is not that relatable to the Supreme Court decision.
Asians have been specifically selected for their skillsets and education from their countries to come here and work vs African Americans have historically been in this country for centuries and have grandparents alive today that are alive today that have been barred civil rights and education. You cannot simply compare the two or expect centuries of institutionalized discrimination to just go away that quickly. I do not know much about Latinos, so I am going to refrain from speaking for them. Last, I am not sure if you have not met any second or third generation Asians, but they tend to lose that efficient study culture and become more lax.
