"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lame ass friends

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Yes this is another "My friends screwed me over" thread.

I just found out from an old friend of mine that my other friends have been going behind my back on almost everything. They have screwed me over more times than I can count and I always thought that it was just an unfortunate coincidence. I always had a suspicion but he confirmed it for me. :box:

Here is just one of the many things they did;
My friend was throwing a party at his place and he knew that a girl I was gaming was going to be there. Infact, he met her through me. So he intentionally didn't tell me about the party and told everyone else not to tell me about it so I wouldn't go. He ended up getting her drunk and banging her. :trouble:

So now I'm done with that social circle that I rolled with and I need a new one. Kind of better actually, everyone in that circle was an AFC except for one, who I'm still friends with. Ever since I found SS I started to dislike them and their negative attitudes anyways, I suppose they got jealous because I started pulling more girls than they were.

The only problem is they were good connections for parties and what not so I won't really be able to find as many parties as I used to. Meeting new people at school will be hard because I go to a community college. No one sticks around, everyone goes to their classes then goes home or what not, no communication in the school and the clubs suck.

Some old aquitances of mine are starting a band and want me to be in it since I play guitar, I'm thinking that will be a good way to get new friends but I don't want to get stuck with one social circle like I did last time.

Anyways, this is just kind of a rant. Any advice would be appreciated. I have contemplated bashing some heads in but they don't know that I know about this yet. Should I even confront these @$$ holes or should I stop talking to them all together? I've known them since junior high, just goes to show you no matter how long you've known someone, they can still stab you in the back.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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mmx

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You definitely do not need friends of that kind. You will be much better off alone than being with them. Don't bother kicking any ass either, it's not worth it. It'll start more **** than you can handle alone!

My opinion: join the band, see where it takes you. Make friends with new people, but watch your back. Remember, you are your own best-friend. Keep your previous-friends as "friends" too, you may want to use them in the future. Concentrate on your studies for now and make yourself a living.
 

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"Piss or get off the pot."

You didn't make your move thats why this guy was banging her. You make it sound like the girl had nothing to do with it. If she had sex with this guy then chances are you were perceived as the creepy stalker guy not him.

All of your friends didn't invite you to a party? All of them? Sorry but this has nothing to do with some bro's before ho's issue. You can't blame your not getting a girl on not getting invited to a party.

Get some friends that like you and you are right that diversifying your social circles is a good way to go - establish a social circle for each fun thing you do in life. (ie. sports, bars, school, clubs, bands, etc..)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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