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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LAHWF pranks are essence of Don Juan skills, my opinion

Black Dog

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Does anyone else think prank videos like

Does anyone else think prank videos like this are what it really means to be a DOn Juan ??

Ive been watching a lot of youtube lately, and I see guys like this who have the courage to approach beautiful women. Guys like LAHWF, Andrew Hales, Simplepickup

it makes me think why dont I try silly things like this in real life?

ok here's a quick example video, it's two young guys (i think theyre in high school) who go around and ask to take pictures with beautiful women.

I dont have the courage to look a beautiful cashier in the eye, and frankly I dont understand how two kids like this have the courage to joke around with beautiful girls. is it just an American thing?

help me you guys
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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youngmack

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I think it is because of the motives and intentions. We approach girls with the intentions of getting their numbers and going out on dates with them, they don't. I am subscribed to both and they approach girls with the intentions of being funny and awkward. Even if simplepickup tries to pickup girls they don't take it serious and are really just trying to make us laugh.

We are so fixated on a certain outcome (getting their numbers and dating them) that we are scared to approach them with possibility the outcome won't be what we want. They on the other hand are not really fixated on a certain outcome,they just want to entertain the audience.

So I say its an outcome dependent and a fear of rejection thing we have. What it really means to be don juan is being outcome independent. Having a care free attitude ,brushing off rejections, and depedestalizing females.
 
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Think to yourself,

Will I ever see these chicks ever again in my lifetime?

That's my mindset. All the approaches I do is a fleeting moment. An opportunity to have hot monkey sex later. You get the number or you get rejected, either way, you wake up the next day like the interaction never happened.

I walk outside and see everything as my playground. Simply giving a smile is all it takes to open interactions. You will never know where the conversation ends up. It's these small interactions that develop social warmth over time. The beauty of life is only limited to the boundaries you create for yourself.

I should stop before turning into a motivational faggot.
 

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youngmack said:
I think it is because of the motives and intentions. We approach girls with the intentions of getting their numbers and going out on dates with them, they don't. I am subscribed to both and they approach girls with the intentions of being funny and awkward. Even if simplepickup tries to pickup girls they don't take it serious and are really just trying to make us laugh.

We are so fixated on a certain outcome (getting their numbers and dating them) that we are scared to approach them with possibility the outcome won't be what we want. They on the other hand are not really fixated on a certain outcome,they just want to entertain the audience.

So I say its an outcome dependent and a fear of rejection thing we have. What it really means to be don juan is being outcome independent. Having a care free attitude ,brushing off rejections, and depedestalizing females.

Exactly.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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