Lady in the house

[DutchHoney]

Hey guys,

First off I want to say that this is certainly an interesting web site... Lots and lots of information to pick through. Whats amuzing however is the disecting of facts from attitude... and what you define is TRULY "man" material.

Apparently this site is about how to impress women to increase the amount of sex you get... and let me tell you, theres nothing wrong with having sex. Yes, women love having lots of sex too... they love good quality sex.

But seriously brothers, some of you act very one dimensional. Its no wonder youre not getting laid. Yes your penis is very special but theres a WHOLE world out there! "Some" guys act like total sheep, when one starts to run, the others do too. Its like being a "man" to some of you means you have to fit in with everyone else and what they are doing.

You could treat a woman like sh!t but as long as shes hot and on your arm, looking cool for all your friends, it doesnt matter. Yet whats so contradictory is the very guy thats fishing for women with a big wallet, inflated ego, and more hype than realness... gets offended when his trophy babes dont give a crap about him or use him to the point of personal emberassment or humiliation.

I mean, why should they care when it was never your intention to care about them in the first place? Its about image right?

If you happen to be blowing smoke up your ass about what women find attractive then eventually, if she has any sense to her, shes gonna see you for what you are... a desperate fake.

But thats with anything really, not just women... Be careful what you convince yourself of.

Personally, and this is just me, cause I know I cant generalize women as a whole... but Im not down for a guy that cops a big attitude and thinks he's doing me a favor just by looking at me. Hey, you wouldnt like it either if some chic acted holier than thou in your presence either.

I like a man I can respect, and one that can respect me... theres nothing hotter! I choose depth of character and integrity over any man that feels like he's dependent on women/sex to make him feel better about himself.

Again, theres more to being a man then the amount of sex you get!

Im also not saying that there isnt sh*tty females out there! They happen, and they will use you, break you, and grind your balls into the pavement. I know women who specifically seek out guys, just to use them...

But please dont generalize it saying its the crazy WOMAN GAMES... cause guys do the SAME d@mn thing!!! Lets just put it this way... there are people on this planet that try to be genuine and learn from their mistakes to become compassionate cool people... and then there are users that are in it only for themselves and they dont care who they hurt. Its not a gender issue but a problem with the human condition.

In response to something else I read... I get hit on a lot... but if I say I have a boyfriend and you want me to cheat on him... my p#ssy dries up instantly. Youre a total turn off and theres nothing you could say to make me give up my phone number... you simply look like a player and a assh*le.

Oh, and if any person rejects you... dont take it personally. Rejection stings for BOTH sexes. You can put on a pouty face and stomp your foot and call that person a name... but then you just look like a toddler throwing a tantrum. MOVE ON! Dont get vengeful or spiteful!

Also consider the TYPE of women you want to attract... obviously its someone beautiful... but if you only want sex pick a one dimensional sort of girl thats not gonna care or invest much into you. Dont work a babe who might actually give a sh!t about life and actually cares for "more" than just sex...

Again I cant speak for all women, because all of them have different standards, agendas, or principles.

I love sex and I dont mind a f#ck buddy but because people are not objects, and they have these things called emotions... sometimes pride or love gets in the way. Its not always easy to have just a f#ck buddy.

In conclusion, I hope some of you men out there open up and start talking to women... and asking a variety of them what turns them on. Your answer is gonna vary depending on how mature they are and what their principles are.

I find it odd that all of you are leaning so hard on other men to give you answers... GO! GO ask some WOMEN what they like. Hopefully you can confide to someone who will be honest with you... and that youre open to learn something new.

As for the rest of you... I think some of you are probably scr*wed! You will never know what women like, much less what they love... Youre too self absorbed and to eager to fit into some box of what a man is or does to know anything else.

 

[azanon]

But seriously brothers, some of you act very one dimensional. Its no wonder youre not getting laid. Yes your penis is very special but theres a WHOLE world out there! "Some" guys act like total sheep, when one starts to run, the others do too. Its like being a "man" to some of you means you have to fit in with everyone else and what they are doing.

I'm not sure what you mean here. A PUA could not care less about what other guys think. Its only what the man wants that matters. I don't go after women to impress other guys. I go after them because I happen to like them, and because I want them for myself.

You could treat a woman like sh!t but as long as shes hot and on your arm, looking cool for all your friends, it doesnt matter. Yet whats so contradictory is the very guy thats fishing for women with a big wallet, inflated ego, and more hype than realness... gets offended when his trophy babes dont give a crap about him or use him to the point of personal emberassment or humiliation.

I dont think you'll find any of our guides recommending to treat women like sh**

If you happen to be blowing smoke up your ass about what women find attractive then eventually, if she has any sense to her, shes gonna see you for what you are... a desperate fake.

... by fake, do you mean a guy not really looking for a serious LTR or to get married? That's a rhetorical question; of course you mean that. Well, when you do realize that, either get over it or move on.

Personally, and this is just me, cause I know I cant generalize women as a whole... but Im not down for a guy that cops a big attitude and thinks he's doing me a favor just by looking at me. Hey, you wouldnt like it either if some chic acted holier than thou in your presence either.

I dont think anyone here would deny that there are outliers that probably do prefer the man that has no confidence, and is not sure of himself. Again, the guides do not recommend ****y without funny. You're right, no funny, and its a big turnoff.

I personally recommending reading more before posting.

I like a man I can respect, and one that can respect me... theres nothing hotter! I choose depth of character and integrity over any man that feels like he's dependent on women/sex to make him feel better about himself.

Again, theres more to being a man then the amount of sex you get!

There's more to a woman's company than just sex. Sex certainly is a highlight, but I enjoy a lot more than just that. Oh yeah sure, i eventually expect sex to be included but sure there's more to it than sex. As long as that doesn't necessarily require a LTR or marriage.

But please dont generalize it saying its the crazy WOMAN GAMES... cause guys do the SAME d@mn thing!!! Lets just put it this way... there are people on this planet that try to be genuine and learn from their mistakes to become compassionate cool people... and then there are users that are in it only for themselves and they dont care who they hurt. Its not a gender issue but a problem with the human condition.

A real PUA doesn't want to leave a woman worse off than he found her. So you're only speaking to the AFCs

In response to something else I read... I get hit on a lot... but if I say I have a boyfriend and you want me to cheat on him... my p#ssy dries up instantly. Youre a total turn off and theres nothing you could say to make me give up my phone number... you simply look like a player and a assh*le.

Totally ignore this advise men. A boyfriend is a woman's problem, and I have had plenty of women with boyfriends go out with me. "boyfriend" means they aren't married to them.

The only reason you haven't done this yourself yet is that you haven't had the right guy ask you to forget about your boyfriend. Good intentions die hard.

Oh, and if any person rejects you... dont take it personally. Rejection stings for BOTH sexes. You can put on a pouty face and stomp your foot and call that person a name... but then you just look like a toddler throwing a tantrum. MOVE ON! Dont get vengeful or spiteful!

right, but this site has said that over and over

Also consider the TYPE of women you want to attract... obviously its someone beautiful... but if you only want sex pick a one dimensional sort of girl thats not gonna care or invest much into you. Dont work a babe who might actually give a sh!t about life and actually cares for "more" than just sex...

Why, because of ethics? Some of us are not bothered by these sorts of ethics. If you sleep with us, that was your choice.

I love sex and I dont mind a f#ck buddy but because people are not objects, and they have these things called emotions... sometimes pride or love gets in the way. Its not always easy to have just a f#ck buddy.

You can't have it both ways. If you have trouble controlling your emotions, then you're probably not FB material.

In conclusion, I hope some of you men out there open up and start talking to women... and asking a variety of them what turns them on. Your answer is gonna vary depending on how mature they are and what their principles are.

I can't think of a better way to turn a woman off than to ask her what turns her on; unless you've known said girl for a while and have a relationship already.

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You really seem like a nice girl and are pretty intelligent. So I hope you aren't too offended by my responses.

 

[Warboss Alex]

Shut up and squat!

 

[SamePendo]

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[DutchHoney]

Azanon>

"I dont think you'll find any of our guides recommending to treat women like sh**"

Of course no one is gonna have a literal outline here that says treat a girl like crap but I can already tell from some of these posts, even in this thread, I get a lot of attitude or boyish insults about sucking c0ck.

Obviously you cant speak for everyone here.

"There's more to a woman's company than just sex. Sex certainly is a highlight, but I enjoy a lot more than just that. Oh yeah sure, I eventually expect sex to be included but sure there's more to it than sex. As long as that doesn't necessarily require a LTR or marriage."

Of course of course you can have fun and great sex... even lots of it without marriage or LTR. Im not saying that... however what I was referring to, or trying to anyways, is that the impression I get from this board...based on the responses and attitudes here... is that woman are really seen as a means to make you look cooler. "How can I be "the man" when what LOOKS like being a man is having a ton of chics."

Thats why my phrasing was specific when I say "some".

"A real PUA doesn't want to leave a woman worse off than he found her. So you're only speaking to the AFCs"

Great rule! No really... However were dealing with human beings here. If people can get it down to be more PUA then more power to you!! Otherwise I think most women I meet mention AFC's.

"A boyfriend is a woman's problem, and I have had plenty of women with boyfriends go out with me. "boyfriend" means they aren't married to them."

Of course youre not tied down or married to anyone! And going out isnt cheating... but if those titles are thrown out there between me and some guy... while were wearing them... Im not gonna cheat on him. "Going out" is purely innocent but Im not naive either... as you said you expect sex somewhere along the way.

Lets just hope for any GUY's sake that has a girlfriend, thats she's willing to break up with you first instead of cheat on you ( I hear guys dont like it either... in fact theres some posts about that). I hear very few stories where people break up first, and then see other people... when there is a sense of commitment to someone its because you usually respect them enough to call them your boyfriend. Im not gonna disrespect my close friend by cheating on him.

And very few guys ask me out with the intention of being JUST my friend.

"Why, because of ethics? Some of us are not bothered by these sorts of ethics. If you sleep with us, that was your choice."

A PUA, you told me isnt supposed to leave a woman worse off then when they first met right? So obviously there is some sort of ethic here or sense of responsibility.

Its not the sex thats a problem... its how you treat someone. I love a penis as much as the next heterosexual woman but hes a human being first before I try to use him for ANYTHING else.

Which again, I dont come here out of malice or hate. I dont tell guys to shove it...

"You can't have it both ways. If you have trouble controlling your emotions, then you're probably not FB material."

Hey my refrence was to THE guys! I would love to say that guys and girls are a bunch of purely logical Mr. Spocks walking around but they are not. I've seen men, FEEL, have emotions, felt hurt, angry, betrayed, etc. And let me say, the guys that can express themselves are a lot more interesting...

But again, thats just me and I may not fit into any stereotype someone may wish to put me under. Men are not the masters of their own emotions... I had a FB once, and things were going good for a while... but his emotions got involved.

Sh!t happens but the moment I realized he was starting to get hurt... I ended it right there. Sex isnt worth hurting other people.... whether that be through betraying someone you love, or just random sex.

Another time I got bored with being the FB to someone else and his pride got hurt cause I refused sex with him. Yeah we can make it a big speech about how that was HIS problem with HIS ego or whatever... he should have been a "better man" and let it all go...

All Im saying is, it isnt as simple as we would all like it to be. Humans are complex.

"I can't think of a better way to turn a woman off than to ask her what turns her on; unless you've known said girl for a while and have a relationship already."

Well if the question is really cliche coming from a stranger than yes.. it is a turn off. But thats not what I said either...

I love talking about sex, I love talking about things that turn me on! If the situation is right I will open up to a fairly new guy I've met... and we talk about it. Then if its a close guy friend of mine (FB, platonic friend, or otherwise) I still enjoy talking about sex and what gets me hot.

As far as anyone breaking my heart? Oh please, who hasnt had their heart broken... EVER... Who hasnt dumped someone or been dumped. Thats not why Im here. Im not some angry feminist stommping around trying to cut off your balls.

Anyways.. I know some dude is gonna read this and make sense of it in his own way. Whether thats really immature or taken to heart.

Good luck to you.

 

[mpimpin]

Get in line...

Sarge On...

LMFAO!!!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

You guys know where this is coming from right? We've had a ton of threads lately which would make a person wonder whether this was a forum for empowerment, 'koom bah ya' circles for clueless guys to commiserate with one another, for rants about 'us' and 'them' or about how little control you have over your success with women.

 

[Local Celebrity]

In conclusion, I hope some of you men out there open up and start talking to women... and asking a variety of them what turns them on. Your answer is gonna vary depending on how mature they are and what their principles are.

I find it odd that all of you are leaning so hard on other men to give you answers... GO! GO ask some WOMEN what they like. Hopefully you can confide to someone who will be honest with you... and that youre open to learn something new.

I'm gonna go in a different direction with this. I enjoyed reading that actually, you did make some good points..especially the one I quoted. I'm honestly thinking, why didn't I think of that? It's really that easy, isn't it?

So, what turns you on? What do you hear, that actually makes your panties wet?

 

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Lady in the house

Prove it.

Sure that stock standard ""I'm not like that, I'm hot and get hit on alot, be nice and sensitive, your all too sex focused, players suck, use my interpretaion of a man, take advise from women"" speech proves your a chick but..... Lady?? Unless your a rare relic from the past who believes a womans place is in the kitchen and living for her man then lets not blow smoke up each others ass (to use your phrase) eh?

For improving myself and or bedding finer b!tches this tip blows I'm afraid.

1 star for effort though...but I had to take that away for the utterly unoriginal username alot of you chicks love to abuse. Baby, hot,angel, honey, princess etc etc you understand?.




lol @ shezz