"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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[Ladies'opinion] what makes a guy sexy

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hi, I had 1 hour free time today so I made a poll on yahoo answers. I put it on a category where there are always lots of ladies hanging out. There are only 8 answers though, but I thought you would like to see the results

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhN3Pq94JEEo9gBYRcH.Dhzsy6IX?qid=1006051706903
cut & paste from excel
First Column is the total points
17 2 4 3 2 1 5 bald head guy
19 4 4 3 3 1 4 with spiked hair
18 4 2 1 4 4 3 0 out-of-the-bed hair
3 0 0 1 1 0 1 rasta style, like a lion
26,5 2 4 4 5 5 3 3,5 unshaven 3-days beard look
5 0 0 0 2 0 0 3 big beard
22 2 3 3 2 5 4 3 aviator's sunglasses
19 2 2 3 4 4 4 h. sports sunglasses
22,5 2 4 5 4 4,5 3 0 gucci sunglasses
11 4 4 0 3 0 0 dragon red and green tatoo on back
13 3 4 0 1 5 piercing on the left eye
16,5 2 0 0 5 2,5 2 5 brown biker's leather jacket
14 1 0 4 5 4 big Diesel/Fossil watch with leather
16 1 4 5 3 3 expensive swiss classical watch
24,5 1 4 5 4 4 3 3,5 black pair of kenneth cole shoes
16 1 3 5 3 2 2 timberland boots
23 2 4 3 5 5 4 0 blue "worn-out" diesel jeans
14 1 2 3 4 2 2 u. black (wool) ralph lauren front pant
11 1 1 3 4 0 2 leather wrist cuff
15 3 1 4 5 0 0 2 silver ring
15 2 5 2 4 0 0 2 gold jewerly
14 1 3 5 5 0 a guy with a muscle american car
17 4 2 3 5 3 with a big german car
16 3 4 1 1 4 3 with fastest japaneese bike
23 3 4 5 3 4 4 a CEO who manages a 100$M corporation
27 3 3 5 3 5 4 4 an olympic gold medalist
12 3 2 3 1 0 3 0 a rapper
13 2 4 5 1 0 1 0 ae. 30 year old schwarzenegger-like
5 1 1 0 3 0 peter parker :)
8 2 1 0 4 0 1 spiderman

Conclusion
rasta guy, peter parker, big beard man and spiderman all loose
even though peter parker makes a lot of effort and is the good guy, I think he is a turn off because he is nerdy looking
I thought spiderman would get more points but I think he is just too weird. He is the kind of guy u cannot show to your friends or family :)

meanwhile olympics gold medalist, unshaven 3-days beard look, kenneth cole shoes, diesel jeans, 100M$ CEO gets the hot babes!
controversial items : gucci sunglasses, brown leather jacket, schwarzenegger, jewerly both silver and gold
controversial items are items that got both grade 5 [great sex appeal] and 0 [turn-off]. I guess schwarzie is just too much, gucci and jewerly have this ...err..feminine side to them

remember there are only 8 answers, it just gives a rough idea

but I do agree having a big beard and rasta hair is definitely not OK!
:)

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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spider_007 said:
:rolleyes: ....so they want nothing to do with spider....not suprising.:rockon:
as spider_007, you'll get more success as 007 rather than spiderman ;)
 

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hmmm, I think you just gave me a great opener...


thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The three day unshaven beard look is a classic, and anyone age 22 +/- 2 years should get in the habit of cycling through it once or twice every week. Shaving upper cheeks + neck while its growing is crucial -- only to completely shave it off three days later. Varied, professional, clean cut, manly, and low maintenance.
 

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what about answers that someone more like me would say :
a job (men in uniforms??)
teeth (good hygene)

or what about the 3 s's ?
stable, strong and smiling
 
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