"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ladies: What Do You Want?

FightinTiger

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DreamyChick said:
I want a guy that makes me laugh. I want a guy who enjoys insightful discussions. I want a guy who can be romantic but not overly needy. I want a guy who will share himself with me goals dreams, wants needs, but I want a guy that will not be afraid to argue with me. I want a guy who can be serious when the situation deems it. I want a guy who will encourage me to be the best i can be and vice versa. I want a connection and emotional investment. But my answer is a guy has to balance these things
*shakes head* one word..... CORNY!! ;)

You know as well as I know that a guy can be all those things, but if a girl don't feel sexual attraction for him, then NONE of those things matter. Well, in most situations anyway.

I think this question is better worded as: "What, besides looks, makes you want in a guy's pants?" Basically, how does a guy have to act within the first few minutes he meets you and over the first couple of dates to drive you crazy (in a good way)?

DreamyChick said:
and be able to read my mind :) LOL
I wouldn't wish for that, honey. For I do believe that the day a man is able to perfectly read a woman's mind is the day the world will end in a blaze of fire, darkness, and other unpleasant things.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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amoka

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The dude is gaming Penkittens and the rest of the ladies in here...lol
 
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