"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ladies: What Do You Want?

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This question is for the 5 chicks that post on this site.

Ladies, what is it that you want from men? How do you want us to approach you? What do you want in a relationship? How long are we suppose to wait for sex? Is a relationship a prerequisite before sex? What is the guy's role in the relationship? Are we suppose to pay for the date, bring flowers, Godiva chocolates, and pay for the gas money. Can a guy really get out of the "friend's zone?" Is money important. There's a study out there that says, that women generally don't want a man that makes less than them? Is it length or width. From what I understand chicks generally don't those booty movie we-wes because they cause pain and discomfort. Boxers or briefs? Finally where do you want the goo dumped. On your face, chin, stomach, snatch, back, weave, big toe, ass or chest?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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It's not that simple. Don't expect any hard set generalities to work with women. Each has individual past experiences that would need to be addressed in specific ways. Best bet is to define yourself and focus on sarging women who enjoy a man like you as opposed to attempting to adjust yourself to the myriad of needs that women want fulfilled.
 

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The way i see it, not only different women have different tastes, but many seem to not even know what they really want. Or worse, they want conflicting things all at once. They want you to be romantic, but they also want you to to treat them badly once in a while.

So my advice is: either act randomly with them, giving them a roller coaster of feelings, OR act like you always do with women, and it's up to them to like you or get out of your life.

The first one is probably gonna give you more short-termed action, while the latter will probably give you more quality, possibly long-term, relationships.
It depends on what YOU really want.
 

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I'd have to agree with Francisco. Just like men, their wants differ. But just like men, women have the same basic needs. That's why it's always safest to play on those and then work your way up the cognitive ladder, that's what I'd say.
 

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They don't know what they ****ing want. The things they want make them feel bad about themselves (IE: money, dominance, etc.) so they automatically cross out those as possibilities... so they can't figure out exactly what they want.

Never take advice from a girl. From what an article said:

"Women tend to give advice that would make the guy do something to strengthen her ego if the advice giver was the girl that the guy is after."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Ladies: What Do You Want?"

"This question is for the 5 chicks that post on this site."
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Seems pretty clear to me. Don't know why there's so many guys posting.
 

Panda 2000

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Okay, let me spill their secret. They want a man with a sense of humour.
 

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It is clearly stated: the question if for women that post on the forum only. I don't see why many guys try to answer the guy's questions....
PLEASE DO NOT RESPOND TO THE QUESTION IF YOU'RE NOT A WOMAN
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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amoka said:
It is clearly stated: the question if for women that post on the forum only. I don't see why many guys try to answer the guy's questions....
PLEASE DO NOT RESPOND TO THE QUESTION IF YOU'RE NOT A WOMAN
OOooo, he told you guys!!! :woo:
 

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I want a guy that makes me laugh. I want a guy who enjoys insightful discussions. I want a guy who can be romantic but not overly needy. I want a guy who will share himself with me goals dreams, wants needs, but I want a guy that will not be afraid to argue with me. I want a guy who can be serious when the situation deems it. I want a guy who will encourage me to be the best i can be and vice versa. I want a connection and emotional investment. But my answer is a guy has to balance these things and be able to read my mind :) LOL
 

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(Did you see the fron page today, 6 characteristics? That's a woman's list of what she wants.)
 

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amoka said:
It is clearly stated: the question if for women that post on the forum only. I don't see why many guys try to answer the guy's questions....
PLEASE DO NOT RESPOND TO THE QUESTION IF YOU'RE NOT A WOMAN
The question *is for women.......


sorry for posting. :yawn:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i can only answer on my own behalf and not on anyone elses.
Maximus Rex said:
This question is for the 5 chicks that post on this site.

Ladies, what is it that you want from men?
make me smile, make me laugh, make me feel good
How do you want us to approach you?[/QUOTE]walk up and say hi
What do you want in a relationship?[/QUOTE]im married, so i want alot in my relationship with my husband, like trust and love for starters
How long are we suppose to wait for sex?[/QUOTE] by date #3
Is a relationship a prerequisite before sex? [/QUOTE] not always
What is the guy's role in the relationship?[/QUOTE]depends on the relationship
Are we suppose to pay for the date, bring flowers, Godiva chocolates, and pay for the gas money.[/QUOTE] no, eww and yes
Can a guy really get out of the "friend's zone?"[/QUOTE]only once in a lifetime
Is money important. There's a study out there that says, that women generally don't want a man that makes less than them? [/QUOTE]money doesnt equal happiness
Is it length or width.[/QUOTE] sometimes its both, but its more how you wave the wand
]From what I understand chicks generally don't those booty movie we-wes because they cause pain and discomfort.[/QUOTE] botty what?
Boxers or briefs?[/QUOTE]boxer briefs are nice
Finally where do you want the goo dumped. On your face, chin, stomach, snatch, back, weave, big toe, ass or chest?[/QUOTE] suck dry !
 

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
"Ladies: What Do You Want?"

"This question is for the 5 chicks that post on this site."
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Seems pretty clear to me. Don't know why there's so many guys posting.
Looks like the dude is trying to sarge SoSuave. :D
 

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yeah, hes tryin to game the 5 chicks that post here and know all the tips, tricks and secrets of our craft
 

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
"Ladies: What Do You Want?"

"This question is for the 5 chicks that post on this site."
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Seems pretty clear to me. Don't know why there's so many guys posting.
You're a guy and you posted, don't be a meanie :cry:

I'm almost interested in what the girls have to say. Good for a general consensus I guess. But stressing the point of individuality is important.
 

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brenbaus said:
yeah, hes tryin to game the 5 chicks that post here and know all the tips, tricks and secrets of our craft
Well, as quiet as it's kept; if he had the ability to game them he would have PM'd them... Shhhhhh.... :whistle:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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