"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Ladies speaking the truth...
- Thread starter RickTheToad
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
RickTheToad
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You are so wrong and it's not even funny. Listen to what she's saying. I'll break it down for you. She wants a good guy beta provider, she needs a dude that she cannot control and that is unpredictable. She shakes s hit up because the good guy beta provider is boring as f uck. Get it?
RickTheToad
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No need to get your panties in bunch big guy.
EyeOnThePrize
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What's funny is if the man stays on his grind he doesn't even notice the drama. She'll make drama and see that she's about to lose the best thing that ever happened to her, then if she's smart she'll submit and work to be the best partner ever.
When a woman tests your resolve she wants to sense your masculine strength. All you have to do is have an effortless 'try me' attitude and she'll never do it again. If she wants drama she can take her as$ to the movies. If she's not working as a teammate she's out. This is the mindset to meet and keep loving girls.
When a woman tests your resolve she wants to sense your masculine strength. All you have to do is have an effortless 'try me' attitude and she'll never do it again. If she wants drama she can take her as$ to the movies. If she's not working as a teammate she's out. This is the mindset to meet and keep loving girls.
Cappo Yung
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The truth is... women love drama. that’s why they call they’re friends up and gossip.
This as been discussed on this forum to my knowledge already.
Which is basically- Once you stand up to her like a man! and dont let she walk all over you like a toy, thats all they need (for you to be a man) . And oh no dont worry my friend, she wont leave you lonely because you stood up to her, she is more likely to call her girl friends over to have fun with you. believe me.
-Yung
This as been discussed on this forum to my knowledge already.
Which is basically- Once you stand up to her like a man! and dont let she walk all over you like a toy, thats all they need (for you to be a man) . And oh no dont worry my friend, she wont leave you lonely because you stood up to her, she is more likely to call her girl friends over to have fun with you. believe me.
-Yung
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
RickTheToad
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Very true Capt. America.
Good points too. A+
Is it that time of the month? No worries, we understand.
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RangerMIke
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Truth!!! Latina's are fun as hell.. but man... it's like diving with sharks.... everything is fine until the godd@mn thing starts at you. Doing something she doesn't like is like tossing chum in the waters. But I will say that they can be VERY loyal and there isn't a whole lot of passive-aggressive BS with them, when they are p1ssed at you, they let you know.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
RickTheToad
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Yep, that's it. It's okay. Just grow thicker skin. You'll learn in time young one. You won't survive in the world with such thin skin.
RickTheToad
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In toad years or human?