Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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ladies, explain this

italyfourever

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Everytime I see this lady she somehow tells me what she is up to ...all the details....where she works/whats she is doing tonight/tomorrow/about her vacation etc..basically everything about her life and I never ask.

I asked her out a year ago and she claimed she was busy and would get back to me, she never did. I ignored her for the most part until the last month or so.

So is there anything to her talking about her life to me?? Any thoughts?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She likes to talk a lot and thinks of you as a friend.
 

DinoCassanova

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I know you wanted ladies to explain it and so far all you're getting is guys, but really there's not much to explain. The guy above me basically summed it up in the fewest possible words. She's just a talkative-type person. If she were really into you at all she would have shown some definite Indicators Of Interest (asked if/why you were single, for example). And she wouldn't have blown you off like that when you asked her about doing something. I mean she would have at least said I can't right now but let's exchange numbers or something. Sounds like a dead end.
 

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Will the AFCs please stop asking "Why is she doing this and that" unless you are banging her, what she says and what she does means nothing. And even if you are banging her, it still means nothing!

Don't waste time with someone that is "too busy" to have a relationship with you. Man get your priorities straight. Women love to have relationships, that's their priority in life, if they "are too busy" it's all a bunch of crockshat.

Man's priorities in life: Adventures(Physical), Materials(External), Sex(Fun-wise).

Woman's priorities in life: Sex(Relationship-wise), Materials(Internal), Adventures(Spectator).
 

Craig Reeves

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You're gonna learn this pretty soon....




Women are NEVER too busy for guys they like. Ever.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If a girl was really intersted in you, she would find time to both go out with you, and reschedule when she is too busy.

Her chatting it up with you is probably either an attempt to lure you back in as an admirer, or just innocent chatting. Nothing here folks.
 

Desdinova

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So is there anything to her talking about her life to me?? Any thoughts?
Yeah. Tell her to shut the fvck up once in a while.

If you're wondering if she likes you, SHE DOESN'T. Your an emotional tampon soaking up her bloody life.
 
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