"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lacrosse Season Preparations?advice needed.

Patrick124

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This year I've decided[as a sophomore] to play a school-sponsored sport for fun and it looks good on a college app. My sport of choice is lacrosse. I'm pretty good at handlign the ball, and what not.
Problem si I've NEVER taken a hit. I'm a measley 5'6" 120lbs[I'm gonna guess in the teens for body-fat, I have a 6-pack if i flex], max at like 105 on benching [weakling, i know] and curling I rep 60[haven't tried mroe weight, i never lift lol].
At my hosue I have a bench, curl bar, 20lb dumbells and one of those aerobic running machines[I'll figure out the exact name tomorrow].
My goal is to gain some mass and strength to be fit to hit harder and run faster. But i'm also VERY inexperienced with working out.
Anyone have any suggestions or specific advice to achieve my goal? Would anyone be willing to help build a routine for me?

The few times I've tried a routine, its fallen through. I need some motivation to get well fit as well. anything gentleman, I'm in need of some help:confused:
thanks, -pat
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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exactly the same size as me, work on passing like crazy... quick sticks especially. as long as you can move the ball fast no one will ever have the chance to hit you
 

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Aight thanks man. I'm tired, but if i didn't mention i wanna play Midi.
No help anyone?
 

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I do not know much about lacrosse...however i know you need speed, edurance/stanima and strength.

Solution: Work OUT! Get a routine for youself. And remember you wont grow...unless u eat. I was originally 120 lbs - Since, err, dont remember but it was this year. Once i began eating more and more i gained weight (Not fat...because i was working out). Right now [Checks weight] i weight 144 lbs.

You need to train your legs. Besides running, you need to practice balance...(run from side to side- while running foward...make an obstacle course) with the stick. And try to throw the ball to yourself and catch it [with the stick] while doing the running drills.
You should gain weight...bulk up - use your equipment.
If you need more information about this...PM me - i gtg study for physics...i have a test tomorrow :(

Im hungry...lol :p [Goes to eat]
Btw, NEVER feel hungry. Your stomach should always be satisfied :D
 

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Join the swim team. It's winter so guy's season should be starting.

You will probably lift weights and run a bit with the team, but do it on your days off as well, or whenever you can.
You'll be starving because you'll burn like 3,000 calories a workout, but as you said, never be hungry. Fill yourself up with high protein food.

Don't think swimming is gay. Seriously, the lacrosse coach at my school requires that the players swim with the team in the winter, even if they just do workouts and don't compete in meets.

Also, girls LOVE swimmers :D (Michael Phelps? The Thorpedo? chicks can't get enough)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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