“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Lack of Sexual Desire

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I was reflecting back on the past year and realized that the whole time I have had a lack of sexual desire. I'll go out, party, and be surrounded by hot girls and have no desire to **** them. It doesn't even come to mind and at the same time, it leads me to NOT pursue them. Whats wrong w/ me?

I remember prior to this, I would always act on my sexual desire and it would get me laid and if not, at least a makeout. Without any sexual desire, I have no drive. What can I do to fix this?

Do you guys feel that sexual desire when you see hot girls? I'll get hard when I look at porn and whatnot, but not when I see a hot girl in person.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Special T

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Do you masturbate? Are you taking any medication? Are you depressed? Are you stressed? Are you gay?
 

Vlappo

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hmm...I take supplements like fish / flax seed oil and have been taking tribulus (supposed to increase libido, but haven't noticed anything).

I'm not gay...I'm definitely attracted to girls...I've had my share of them and will get horny as **** when I'm with a girl in bed, but if I'm at a bar and see a hot girl, I don't have that desire in me to be like "damn...I wanna **** the **** out of her".

I used to masturbate daily, but I've been cutting back.
 

Waking Up

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^ That's exactly why. Quit masturbating for a few weeks and then you'll laugh at this thread.
 

lakeshore

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Vlappo said:
hmm...I take supplements like fish / flax seed oil and have been taking tribulus (supposed to increase libido, but haven't noticed anything).

I'm not gay...I'm definitely attracted to girls...I've had my share of them and will get horny as **** when I'm with a girl in bed, but if I'm at a bar and see a hot girl, I don't have that desire in me to be like "damn...I wanna **** the **** out of her".

I used to masturbate daily, but I've been cutting back.

I get what you're saying and kind of have the same issue. It definitely holds us back. I think its just something you have to be conscious of and work at.

Maybe try to Imagine the last chick you got hot and heavy with while just hanging out, like heavy flirting touching and things like that and remember how horny you got. Then imagine the same thing happening with the other girls you're seeing out in public or at bars or whatever.

Basically just try different things until something works.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have a really nasty thing happen to my sex drive after a few weeks without sex, it just crumbles. I don't have a high drive as I would have around girls I'd be having sex with.

This is always a problem with the first time of having sex. I need 1 or 2 days to get my drive back in full motion. But that doesn't mean I don't have a desire to shag them, it just lowers. Otherwise I'd end up being in a constant agony of behind horny.
 

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yeah. dont wack it for as long as possible.

in my experience, tribulus will increase your sex drive (and stamina at gym) but it can alter your personality without you noticing it. it will give you a shorter fuse and shorter patience with people. be VERY careful.
 
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