"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Now that I've moved home to a small town with 3000 people, and I already banged a good chunk of the available women, my options are limited. To make matters worse, the one and only bar in town is closed down.

Now I've spent the last 3 weeks, going out and visiting old friends, catching up. So it hasn't really bothered me that I'm not out chasing new plates. I've been with an old FB, have another chomping at the bit, but I've just go no real interest in them right now.

I'm fine with not having sex for a bit, strange as that is. Its like any other addiction, when you get it, you want more, but if you go without, it makes it easier to continue to go with out.

However where my problem lies is going to be in a few weeks. The novelty of being back home will wear off and I'll start to get bored. The only other option is going to the next city 2 hours away, but thats where I grew up and I've also been through a good chunk of those available women. Granted there are many more there, but I've gone through my circle.

I just don't have interest in women in my surroundings. Even though Sudbury has 150 000 people, its still a sh1thole mining town with blue collar people.

The thing is I've been here less than a month, I'm already making more money working part time 3 days a week, than I was making working full time in Halifax. I've also got some good business opportunities. However the prospects for women just suck.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My suggestion: Bang the last few women available in town that you haven't banged yet. Then go to the next town and bang the ones you missed there, too.
 

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I take it you like the Big Smoke alot better than the Sleeping Giant.

ps I've never understood the sleeping giant reference, can you explain it to me?
 
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You have banged every girl in your town? Damn how big is your town? I thought my town was small I can't even find any girls in my town except for... well you know already nevermind.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You really need to learn how to read MNIN. I said in the first line how big the town is. Secondly I didn't say I banged everyone, I said I banged a chunk of the available women.

I did the math in a different thread.
 
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