"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Now that I've moved home to a small town with 3000 people, and I already banged a good chunk of the available women, my options are limited. To make matters worse, the one and only bar in town is closed down.

Now I've spent the last 3 weeks, going out and visiting old friends, catching up. So it hasn't really bothered me that I'm not out chasing new plates. I've been with an old FB, have another chomping at the bit, but I've just go no real interest in them right now.

I'm fine with not having sex for a bit, strange as that is. Its like any other addiction, when you get it, you want more, but if you go without, it makes it easier to continue to go with out.

However where my problem lies is going to be in a few weeks. The novelty of being back home will wear off and I'll start to get bored. The only other option is going to the next city 2 hours away, but thats where I grew up and I've also been through a good chunk of those available women. Granted there are many more there, but I've gone through my circle.

I just don't have interest in women in my surroundings. Even though Sudbury has 150 000 people, its still a sh1thole mining town with blue collar people.

The thing is I've been here less than a month, I'm already making more money working part time 3 days a week, than I was making working full time in Halifax. I've also got some good business opportunities. However the prospects for women just suck.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My suggestion: Bang the last few women available in town that you haven't banged yet. Then go to the next town and bang the ones you missed there, too.
 

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I take it you like the Big Smoke alot better than the Sleeping Giant.

ps I've never understood the sleeping giant reference, can you explain it to me?
 
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You have banged every girl in your town? Damn how big is your town? I thought my town was small I can't even find any girls in my town except for... well you know already nevermind.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You really need to learn how to read MNIN. I said in the first line how big the town is. Secondly I didn't say I banged everyone, I said I banged a chunk of the available women.

I did the math in a different thread.
 
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