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Lack of inspiration in self-help books...

Falcon

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I don't really know if this post is going to be a tip or a rant, but hopefully some people will benefit from this.

Lately, I've gotten tired of reading self-help books. You know, the type that you would find being talked about on these forums (no offense to anyone). The funny thing is I don't even read that many. Anyway, so I spent the last half of the summer and now looking for something to replace them. For some reason, I've always felt there was something missing from self-help books.

After some time searching, I found out what I was seeking was inspiration. I figured that the small short stories in self-help books were not enough. You know, the little short stories they have of peoples' success in every chapter. Or the common pep talk you always get. I wanted something better. I wanted the full story, not some short story of somebody. Not the good part without the bad part. If there is anything that can move a man so greatly, it is being inspired and I wanted to be inspired. So I started reading biographies of people I admire. I started with Mozart, and then Ben Franklin. There's just something about reading biographies that blow self-help books out of the water. It's hard to explain, but it just feels more real. Not only that, but it also forces your mind to think because everything isn't laid out. Plus, in a biography you get everything- How a person socializes with people, how they tried to improve themselves, ...everything (even a history lesson)! You also get to see if what they did worked or not. Who wouldn't want to read biographies?!

But I sometimes think I'm trying to get at something else here. I look at book lists on sites like this and I feel the lists could use a little balance (not saying they are wrong). I feel we can all benefit from reading famous writings of the past or studying people of the past. For example, Pook was big on Shakespeare and it seemed like he got a lot of inspiration and wisdom from his plays. I'm sure it benefited him. Maybe the stuff they told us to read in school was always good for us (too bad they didn't know how to teach it). Does anyone here read Emerson? I feel his essays are really mind blowing and very inspirational. I also find The Federalist papers to be very inspirational (for political reasons).

So my question is, are we reading what we should be reading? Not that it is wrong to choose what you read (obviously), but are we tapping our full potential? Are there much greater avenues of inspiration, knowledge, and wisdom that we write off because we feel we are too busy with our own lives?
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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I found Awaken the Giant Within by Anthony Robbins to be very inspirational.

But you're still right, there's always more we could and can be inspired by if we only look.

You should go to W. Mitchell's website and watch his video.

He's probably the single most inspirational human being I've ever been made aware of.
 

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As I see it time is really what can tell you if a book has real value or not, and this is not something that only applies to books but also to movies, songs etc.

Reading a book written by a contemporary writer can be good or bad, but the big chance is that it's bad and it's only a trend that will pass in a few years, while reading something like Dante, written so many hundred years ago is a sure bet because the quality of writing has defeated time.

Paolo Coelho was a big hit a few years ago but now I don't hear anything of him, people seem to have forgatten him, that gives you an insight of how "valuable" his books really are.
 

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Try Chicken Soup for the Soul: Living your Dreams

that has a whole helluva lot of inspiration in it.

(auto)biographies are awesome as well. I also like reading fiancial literature as well.

comic_relief
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Lately, I have also been getting tired of reading selfhelp books. In the past, I have to lay my hand on every seduction book I could find. It seems like after reading alot of them its just the same ideas over and over again. I find that reading about other peoples sucess motivates me even more and see how far they have come, books just dont seem to cut it for me anymore.
 

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KontrollerX,

Thanks for heads up on W. Mitchell. I did a search and found his site and downloaded his free e-book. I believe this guy was mentioned in a Tony Robbins book.
 

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im reading 48 laws of power right now...does that count as self-help?
 

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penkitten said:
then what is it about?
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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48 Laws of Power. Read it.
 

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comic_relief said:
I heard that this book is AMAZING!!! I am getting it for winter break most likely.

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Oh yeah, it gives you incites into Lance which would make you wonder how the hell he became one of America's "darlings." He was quite a piece of work when he was a young buck.
 
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