"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lack of authority

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Were going out tonight, and most of the time my voice is not listened too.

I mean I do have to most logical ideas, and I'm the strongest/tallest/best looking/funniest and even logical/sensible one(not boring haha) of the group. How can I be more of the "dominant male" How can I make people listen, what tips techniques to use.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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To be honest i don't understand why you're not listen to if your the "strongest/tallest/best looking/funniest and even logical/sensible one(not boring haha) "

As someone said once "women will make time for you (if they are interested"

The only advice i could personally give you is maybe speak a bit louder and make sure you have there attention first or try even catch them by thereselves as you don't seem to have many if any major flaws that should stop people from listening to you
 
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I now, but I've been friends with these for about a year now, and I used to be really shy. Also I think I'm just as good looking, I used to get loads of stares In winter 2007. But now I don't really get them any more, maybe as I've got older I've got uglier. I've never had a girlfriend, I've had 3 chances over past year to have one but I ****ed two of them up and didn't follow one up.

Maybe I'm relying on my good looks, but one theory I'm coming to is that girls like the guys just as good looking as me or even ugly who are in TV, magazines, films. Is this the status girls want, or is it the fact they can't have them?
 
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I was thinking about your last question just today and I've and many others have came to the conclusion that yeah of course they want the status but they know they can't have them like I want Heidi Klum and Paris Hilton but i can't have them and it's not always that extreme, but through listening i've came to the conclusion that:

They want them, but they know they can't have them. and thats all that matters

Simple

And with the other stuff i know how you feel haha but hey there must be something i can't **** up all though i doubt it
 
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