"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DEKKA

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Who's from SoCal y'all? If you're from the los angeles area post up and say some words about where you playin the game, whos gettin laid, where you like to go out and have fun, etc. I'm from Pasadena and i like to hang out in old town and sometimes run up to w hollywood/ noho with some friends to sarge n run some game and such. College girls are easy daaaaamn.

And a huge TIP that you guys should all know now that I just found. VOLUNTEER GROUPS. GODD DAMM! I just joined one and like 15 women and im the ONLY guy. I am in heaven and already have one in the works for next weekend. And i'm planning on taking the volunteer cordinator(HB8.6) to this ritzy bennifit dinner/auction on the 27th! This is a total untapped resoure of nice, loving, chicks w/o major issues. THEY ARE MINE.... ALL MINE=) keep it on the DL k guys. happy hunting and just relax and be THE MAN.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hardwork

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Originally posted by DEKKA
This needs to go to discussion. yeeeehawwwww
Actually, it's getting booted to The Wingman Forum, and that's only because I don't want to cut up the damn thing and put its pieces where they should go :p
 

Newbie01

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what voloutneer groups are you talking about? Never heard about that.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jakethasnake

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That's a cool link, thanks. I think helping your community is a very cool thing to do - it's DJ to the core. Oh, and here's one more DJ reppin' L.A. :cool: :)
 

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LA reppin here

IM in the SGV area 15 minutes east of downtown LA
 
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