"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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L.A weight-loss

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i only need to lose about 15 pounds to be back to my normal self. and i've gone to the gym for over a year and i can't seem to shed any pounds. i only eat twice a day and i still stay the same weight. i'm thinking of going to L.A weight loss. anybody ever try it?

i remember when i was younger when i went to the gym the pounds just disappeared. now that i'm 28 it takes forever. it sucks. help!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yea maybe you should eat more frequent, but smaller meals. like 5-6 meals a day, but eat less in each meal.

you have reached a plateau. you should probably switch up your routine a bit and clean up your diet starting with what i said. i dunno what carb cycling is, but it's supposed to help break plateaus or something. you eat more like on sunday and go back to normal 5-6 meal eating the other days. maybe someone else can help u out w/that
 

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You need to be eating more than twice a day, that is where your problem lies. What is your current height, weight, diet and your routine look like?
 

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Eat smaller meals, more frequently. This will boost your metabolism and make it work overtime because it will have to constantly be digesting food(using energy & burning fat).Your meals should be healthy, etc, etc, you know what im talkin about.

example:

7:00 AM = Breakfast

10:00AM = Morning Snack

12:00PM = Lunch

3:00PM = Afternoon Snack

6:00PM = Dinner

9:00PM = Evening Snack(as small as possible)
 

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i'm 5'11, 188 pounds, and i eat the same thing everyday no lie. 2 hamburgers and 2 hot dogs with nothing on them. i guess i should get a better variety
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah dawg, get some veggies in there and some of that 'healthy stuff' and you'll see some lower digits on the scale.
 
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