"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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L.A weight-loss

insanity

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i only need to lose about 15 pounds to be back to my normal self. and i've gone to the gym for over a year and i can't seem to shed any pounds. i only eat twice a day and i still stay the same weight. i'm thinking of going to L.A weight loss. anybody ever try it?

i remember when i was younger when i went to the gym the pounds just disappeared. now that i'm 28 it takes forever. it sucks. help!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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yea maybe you should eat more frequent, but smaller meals. like 5-6 meals a day, but eat less in each meal.

you have reached a plateau. you should probably switch up your routine a bit and clean up your diet starting with what i said. i dunno what carb cycling is, but it's supposed to help break plateaus or something. you eat more like on sunday and go back to normal 5-6 meal eating the other days. maybe someone else can help u out w/that
 

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You need to be eating more than twice a day, that is where your problem lies. What is your current height, weight, diet and your routine look like?
 

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Eat smaller meals, more frequently. This will boost your metabolism and make it work overtime because it will have to constantly be digesting food(using energy & burning fat).Your meals should be healthy, etc, etc, you know what im talkin about.

example:

7:00 AM = Breakfast

10:00AM = Morning Snack

12:00PM = Lunch

3:00PM = Afternoon Snack

6:00PM = Dinner

9:00PM = Evening Snack(as small as possible)
 

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i'm 5'11, 188 pounds, and i eat the same thing everyday no lie. 2 hamburgers and 2 hot dogs with nothing on them. i guess i should get a better variety
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yeah dawg, get some veggies in there and some of that 'healthy stuff' and you'll see some lower digits on the scale.
 
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