"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Still lifting weights, just havent been updating my journal. Thought I'd start up another log and try to keep up with the rest of you guys. :D Just finished up a basic power cycle and going to give the Conjugate System another shot. Tried it before but wasnt sure if it was for me or not... This time I have some more experienced guys to help coach me through the program to make it suit my needs - Being a 100% Raw and not very experienced. Anyways, lets get 2014 rolling!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Thursday, January 9th. 2014
Week 1 - Dynamic Bench Press

Speed Bench
45x5
65x5
80x3
8x3 x 95 (60%) (Close,Medium,Wide Grip) - Medium grip was easiest for me.

Low Pin Press
95x3
105x3
115x3
*Set the saefty pins just a couple inches above my chest - Pinky's on ring.

DB Bench Press
15's x 10
20's x 10
25's x 10

DB Bent-Over Rows
20's x 10
30's x 10
35's x 10

Tricep Push Downs (straight bar)
4x12

Took it lighter on some of the assistant lifts to see where I'm at and aim to go heavier next week.
 

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Saturday, January 11. 2014
Week 1 - Max Effort Squat/Dead

Squat
45x5
70x5
95x5
120x5
145x5
170x5
195x5
220x5

GHR's
3x10 x BW

DB Lunges
3x10
*First time doing these, pretty brutal... Started with body weight and grabbed some 15's to learn the exercise.

Back Raises
15,15,10 x BW

Weighted Sit-Ups with Feet Anchored
3x10
*Normally would cross my arms around my chest, this time I put my hands behind my head and make it alot tougher.
 

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Yeah, those db lunges will get ya :)
 

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I hear ya Pure, need to start working on them more!


Monday, January 13. 2014
Week 1 - Max Effort Upper Body

Incline Barbell Bench
Barx5
55x5
65x5
75x5
85x5
95x5
105x5
115x4 PR
*Been a long time since I done these but, got a PR out of it!

Pull-Ups
5 sets of 4 x Body Weight

3-Way Shoulder Raise
3x20

DB Tricep Ext. (Overhead)
20 x 10
30 x 10
40 x 10
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Keep at it man! Good to see you trying to find the best program for you.
 

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Thanks Stig, I thought the last programs were solid but, wasn't seeing too much progression. I could of been expecting too much or they were'nt really working for me. Always been interested in the "Westside method", just never really knew how to make it work for me... Liking the new program so far.
 

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Wednesday, January 15. 2013
Week 1 - Dynamic Squat/Dead

Squat
45x5
70x5
95x5
120x3
--------
10x2x140 (55%)

Deadlift
135x5
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10x1x160 (55%)

SLDL
60 x 10
70 x 10
80 x 10
*Program calls for Reverse Hypers but, gym doesnt have one, so will just do these instead...

DB Side Bends
40 x 10
50 x 10
60 x 10

Hanging Leg Raises with Bent Knees
3x10 x BW
 

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thursday, January 16th. 2014
Week 2 - Dynamic Effort Bench Press

Speed Bench
45x5
70x5
85x3
8x3 x 95 (60%)
1x2 x 110 (70%)

Low Pin Press
95x3
110x3
125x3

DB Bench Press (Palms facing each-other)
20's x 10
25's x 10
30's x 10
35's x 10

DB Bent-Over Rows
30's x 10
35's x 10
40's x 10
40's x 10

Tricep Push Downs (straight bar)
4x12
 

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Saturday, January 18. 2014
Week 2 - Max Effort Squat/Dead

Another Brutal training session...

Squat
45x5
70x5
95x5
120x5
145x5
170x5
195x5
225x5 (+5lbs from last week)

GHR's
4x10 x BW

DB Lunges (Walking - 4x10/leg)
BW x 10
5's x 10
10's x 10
15's x 10 (+5lbs)

Back Raises (2 Sec. Holds)
4x10 BW

Sit-Ups with Feet Anchored (Hands/Weight behind head)
BW x 10
5lb x 10
5lb x 10
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Suppose to be a rest day, but have to the day off from work and just felt motivated to get in the gym...

Sunday, January 19. 2014
Week 2 - Max Effort Bench Press

Incline Barbell Press
45x5
55x5
65x5
75x5
85x5
95x5
110x5
115x5 *New 5RM*

Pull-Ups (Over-Hand)
6x4 x BW

3-Way Shoulder Raise
3x10

DB Tricep Extensions
25's x 10
30's x 10
35's x 10
45's x 10 (+5lbs)

Hammer Curls
3x12 x 20's
 

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Another day at the office...

Tuesday, January 21st. 2014
Week 2 - Dynamic Effort Squat/Deadlift

Squat
70x5
95x5
120x5
135x3
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10x2 x 155 (60%)

Deadlift
135x5
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10x1 x 175 (60%)

SLDL
60 x 10
70 x 10
80 x 10
90 x 10 (+10lbs)

DB Side Bends
55 x 10
60 x 10
65 x 10 (+5lbs)

Hanging Leg Raises with Bent Knees
3x10 x BW
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Solid...seeing squats and deads in the same workout actually got me thinking...I feel like my training is getting a bit stale due to the fact that
1) I just don't sweat that much anymore unless it's a circuit (I know that's not the only indicator of training effectiveness)

and

2) I kinda just wanna change things up, induce some sort of new response in my body

So maybe starting next week, I'll do squats and deads in the same workout twice a week, but go heavy on one lift and light on the other, then switch it for day 2. Maybe I'll do it for a month or so and see how it goes.
 

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TheStig said:
Solid...seeing squats and deads in the same workout actually got me thinking...I feel like my training is getting a bit stale due to the fact that
1) I just don't sweat that much anymore unless it's a circuit (I know that's not the only indicator of training effectiveness)


and

2) I kinda just wanna change things up, induce some sort of new response in my body

So maybe starting next week, I'll do squats and deads in the same workout twice a week, but go heavy on one lift and light on the other, then switch it for day 2. Maybe I'll do it for a month or so and see how it goes.
I'd give it a shot and see if it works for you. On this particular day, training was based off speed/explosion so the training percents were low and made it easier. Though there quite a few powerlifters that train their squat/dead (heavy) on the same day cause it works the same muscle groups. I do notice my lower back gets fatigued, could be lack of conditioning or a weakness coming out...
 

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TheStig said:
Solid...seeing squats and deads in the same workout actually got me thinking...I feel like my training is getting a bit stale due to the fact that
1) I just don't sweat that much anymore unless it's a circuit (I know that's not the only indicator of training effectiveness)


and

2) I kinda just wanna change things up, induce some sort of new response in my body

So maybe starting next week, I'll do squats and deads in the same workout twice a week, but go heavy on one lift and light on the other, then switch it for day 2. Maybe I'll do it for a month or so and see how it goes.
I'd give it a shot and see if it works for you. On this particular day, training was based off speed/explosion so the training percents were low and made it easier. Though there quite a few powerlifters that train their squat/dead (heavy) on the same day cause it works the same muscle groups. I do notice my lower back gets fatigued, could be lack of conditioning or a weakness coming out...
 

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Thursday, January 23rd. 2014
Week 3 - Dynamic Effort Bench Press

Bench
45x5
65x5
75x5
85x3
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8x3 x 95 (60%)
1x2 x 110 (70%)
1x1 x 130 (80%)

Low Pin Press
95x3
115x3
135x3 (+10lbs)

DB Bench Press
20's x 10
25's x 10
30's x 10
35's x 10
40's x 10 (+5lbs)

DB Bent-Over Rows
20's x 10
25's x 10
30's x 10
35's x 10
40's x 10

Tricep Pushdowns (Straight Bar)
4x12
 

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Friday, January 21st. 2014
Week 3 - Max Effort Squat/Dead

Squat
45x5
70x5
95x5
120x5
145x5
170x5
190x3
215x1
230x5 (+5lbs)

GHR's
2x20 (40 reps)

DB Lunges
BW x 10
10's x 10
15's x 10
20's x 10 (+5lbs)

Back Raises
3x10 x BW (2 sec. holds)

Sit-Ups with Feet Anchored
2x10 x BW
2x10 x 5lb plate
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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