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perseverance
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She's a munter.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
He moved back in with her.Cremasta said:I've gotta give Robert a 'well played' there.
Sorry, I don't really follow this stuff too much. I'll renew my subscription to 'Who Weekly' right away!Alle_Gory said:He moved back in with her.![]()
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You mean I'm not put on this earth to be subservient to these women with all these problems? It's not my job to save them?Alle_Gory said:Have you tried saving them with your d!ck? I hear it has medicinal properties.
Cremasta said:Sorry, I don't really follow this stuff too much. I'll renew my subscription to 'Who Weekly' right away!
Why the hell would he do that? He's probably got a couple million legal-aged fans lusting after him, and he's gone back to a girl who cheated on him?!?
What a douche!
You fvcking better.Cremasta said:Sorry, I don't really follow this stuff too much. I'll renew my subscription to 'Who Weekly' right away!