Hello people. Ok, so last semester I went out with this korean girl a couple of times, just having fun being C&F. This semester I called the girl and she didn't show high IL so I decided to give it a rest and do the "retreat" thing. Well I saw her IL rise after that, like she's trying to get closer and stuff. She called the other day (ringer was off) then I saw her and she was like "I was calling to get dinner etc". So I call her yesterday to set up something, no answer and I didn't leave a message. Should I call her today or just leave it for some other time? Thanks. G
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Just a word of warning - with asian girls (this goes double for koreans), some of the common strategies need to be completely reversed, as they don't seem to respond well to DJ tactics. This doesn't apply to americanized Philos and the like though, just the traditional girls.
The_Mole
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trust me, your not going to be going anywhere with this girl because of what she is korean. you have a chance with a filipino or vietnamese. korean dads are mad and u dont want to mess with one.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
jakethasnake
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Wut in da phuck...?
What kind of retarded white-boy crap is THAT? LOL!!!
Gigalo DJ, you best sit your AMATEUR ASS down, boy!
You are truly one tremendous dumbphuck. No, really.
First of all, your Korean (written or not) is SO atrocious that I (a 100% Korean) have no damn CLUE what you're trying to say there.
Second, speaking in some dumb-ass white boy style of broken-ass Korean/Chinese/Viet is NO WAY for a white man to pick up an Asian lady. Take this from an ASIAN MAN. We phucking HATE IT. Believe it or not, even Asian men hate that crap coming from some yellow-fever havin' white bytch. I shyt you not.
The best way to approach an Asian woman, especially if she has been in America for a period longer than a year, is to approach her like a WHITE BYTCH. No different. SPEAK ENGLISH TO HER, you phuck-tard!
The catch however, is to be more gentle, and less aggressive. Be very friendly, in a non-sexual way. Asian women respond best to that. And the other guys are right in saying that Filipinas, esp. Americanized ones are like Latinas. They are sluts. You can treat, phuck them like your run-of-the-mill white bytch. No biggie. But watch out for those other Asian girls. They take more delicate work - so don't pull any dumb whiteboy stunts likeGigalo suggested. Sheesh.
jakethasnake
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And FYI guys, Korean girls can either be quite easy, or just IMPOSSIBLE for a whiteboy to crack. There's just NO middle ground. None.
Most, I'd say 80%, are impossible to crack. They are only into Asians, and from that they place a priority on hot Korean boys. Whiteboys (to them) are for when all the Korean boys die at war or some farfetched **** like that. The one-fifth that do go for whiteboys are the ones that grew up white (in the 'burbs) or as Korean adoptees in Minnesota or some other godforsaken state ), or the ones that have self-idenity/esteem issues.
It's all true, though there are some VERY few exceptions. Feel free to go for it though. It's been known to happen, on occaision. Your odds are better the further she falls from the "Korea-town Hoochie" archetype, i.e. VERY made up, PERRRRFECT straight hair, fake eyelashes, high heels EVERYWHERE, etc. . If she's quite white-acting or plain jane, your chances aren't too bad at all.
Most, I'd say 80%, are impossible to crack. They are only into Asians, and from that they place a priority on hot Korean boys. Whiteboys (to them) are for when all the Korean boys die at war or some farfetched **** like that. The one-fifth that do go for whiteboys are the ones that grew up white (in the 'burbs) or as Korean adoptees in Minnesota or some other godforsaken state
), or the ones that have self-idenity/esteem issues.It's all true, though there are some VERY few exceptions. Feel free to go for it though. It's been known to happen, on occaision. Your odds are better the further she falls from the "Korea-town Hoochie" archetype, i.e. VERY made up, PERRRRFECT straight hair, fake eyelashes, high heels EVERYWHERE, etc. . If she's quite white-acting or plain jane, your chances aren't too bad at all.
Hey Jakethasnake... I'm korean too and you need to learn about the FOB's and the long time "Korean in America" types. Oh and the line Gigalo said above was probably Ahn Nyung, Chaum EE Ppuu da.. meaning Hey, your really pretty. This can be considered pretty cute by a korean girl who can speak korean, (along time "korean in america" girls tend to forget how to speak korean.)
The FOB stands for fresh out the boat meaning they just came to the US and some of them do know how to speak english (FYI: in korea they teach with a british accent) and in korea I was amazed at how different the dating system works... Seek info on that.
suavedave
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stay away
Stay away man, they are a big waste of time. I have had such great times with japanese -- who are much brighter and love white guys more. Choose other asian nationalities and keep your ego intact.
Stay away man, they are a big waste of time. I have had such great times with japanese -- who are much brighter and love white guys more. Choose other asian nationalities and keep your ego intact.
jakethasnake
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Gigalo, you can't blame me for thinking that you have weak-ass skillz. I CRINGE when a whiteboy thinks that stuff is clever... because it really isn't. It's pretty weak.
BUUUUUT - since you said you're going for Korean girls in Korea, your best bet would be to be VERY polite. Koreans in Korea are, as a rule, EXTREMELY XENOPHOBIC and racist, I'm afraid. Not the most endearing aspect of my mother country's culture. But if you play it respectful, you'll have an outside chance. If you speak conversational Korean with a minimal accent (I've seen some Westerners like that on Korean TV), you will have curious girls probably swarming over you. That is how endearing it is when a foreigner took the trouble to learn your language. If a white girl spoke perfect Korean to me, I would be intrigued, I must admit.
But as the other dude suggested - Japan is a much better choice for a gajin-boy boy like you. Japan is obssessed with Westerners, and Japanese girls are probably the Germans of East Asia, always open like a focken Seven-Eleven. If you stand out in any way, they will be on their knees suckin your dikk. I know quite a few Asian American guys who go there and have Japanese bytches hangin off their arms like monkeys. Black and white American guys can work the same mojo there.
I think the difference between the mentalities of Korean and Jap girls comes from that sexuality is more open in Japan. That's in part to mass Westernization in Japan, but also because the indigenous culture tolerated female promiscuity (i.e. premarital sex) from centuries ago. I read that somewhere.
It's pretty weak.BUUUUUT - since you said you're going for Korean girls in Korea, your best bet would be to be VERY polite. Koreans in Korea are, as a rule, EXTREMELY XENOPHOBIC and racist, I'm afraid. Not the most endearing aspect of my mother country's culture.
But if you play it respectful, you'll have an outside chance. If you speak conversational Korean with a minimal accent (I've seen some Westerners like that on Korean TV), you will have curious girls probably swarming over you. That is how endearing it is when a foreigner took the trouble to learn your language. If a white girl spoke perfect Korean to me, I would be intrigued, I must admit. But as the other dude suggested - Japan is a much better choice for a gajin-boy boy like you. Japan is obssessed with Westerners, and Japanese girls are probably the Germans of East Asia, always open like a focken Seven-Eleven. If you stand out in any way, they will be on their knees suckin your dikk. I know quite a few Asian American guys who go there and have Japanese bytches hangin off their arms like monkeys. Black and white American guys can work the same mojo there.
I think the difference between the mentalities of Korean and Jap girls comes from that sexuality is more open in Japan. That's in part to mass Westernization in Japan, but also because the indigenous culture tolerated female promiscuity (i.e. premarital sex) from centuries ago. I read that somewhere.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
jakethasnake
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The Japanese come from a culture where they were SEVERELY subjugated by a dominant figurehead. Ever since the start of the samurai feudal ages, through the Edo period and to the modern Meiji period, a POWERFUL figure has been *****-slapping them around.
Now, it just happened that Japan was the aggressor in Asia during the past 100 years with the colonization of Korea and then pretty much the whole of Asia. Thus they still harbor some dumb-ass superiority complex toward other Asians. But despite being (in their minds) the head honchos of Asia, they still have this sub-conscious need to be someone's *****. IT'S TOTALLY TRUE. The Japanese are twisted focks like that - because they are SO used to being bossed around by SOMEONE, they would still be bowing to others in deference, even if they RULED the whole world, America and all. So since they got their asses kicked by the Allied Powers (primarily America), they've internalized the shame and resort to kissing Yankee ass. That is why even us supposedly 'lowly' Americans of non-Japanese Asian descent get VIP treatment over there.
I challenge any Japanese poster on this board to challenge my claims. It's pretty much true.
Now, it just happened that Japan was the aggressor in Asia during the past 100 years with the colonization of Korea and then pretty much the whole of Asia. Thus they still harbor some dumb-ass superiority complex toward other Asians. But despite being (in their minds) the head honchos of Asia, they still have this sub-conscious need to be someone's *****.
IT'S TOTALLY TRUE. The Japanese are twisted focks like that - because they are SO used to being bossed around by SOMEONE, they would still be bowing to others in deference, even if they RULED the whole world, America and all. So since they got their asses kicked by the Allied Powers (primarily America), they've internalized the shame and resort to kissing Yankee ass. That is why even us supposedly 'lowly' Americans of non-Japanese Asian descent get VIP treatment over there.I challenge any Japanese poster on this board to challenge my claims. It's pretty much true.
OfficeSpace
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Korean girls are hard to crack! (I've dated a few) I go to an International school here in the Philippines, and we have a lot of Koreans coming to learn English.
If I had a choice I'd go for a cute Japanese girl!
Korean girls seem like a waste of time.
If I had a choice I'd go for a cute Japanese girl!
Korean girls seem like a waste of time.
Phoenix_of_the_ashes
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Hey jake whats up with the "whiteboy" bull****, nobodys calling you a chink.