"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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known this girl for a while

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I've been on this site for advice for a while, but i've never posted, so forgive me if I make dumb remarks or other s**t. Anyways, I've known this girl for a while, like since the beginning of the last school year. She's a senior (I'm a junior), and she seems interested. She has always thought of me as funny, and I even found out from one of my friends (girl) that she wanted to ask me to prom last year, but decided not to. I have two class periods with her a day, one of which it's just her and me with a couple of other people. We have a lot of time to talk most days, and we have good convos for the most part. I know she was interested in me a while back (a few months), but lately, conversations been pretty bland. I asked her out once, and she agreed, but it ended up being a get-together with her friends as well as mine. I want to spend some one-on-one time with her, but i don't really know how to handle her. Some days its like she's really interested, but others, its like lets just be friends. How do I handle this?:confused:
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You need to let her know your interests. Don't let it be okay that you are just friends. YOU are the man and need to show it.
 
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Well, you need to take her out on dates that are just you and her. Thats the first place you can start. Tell her you want to take her out and will pick her up at 7pm and such and such date. Make it a BOLD Statement with NO questioning tone at all. See what her response is. If she offers you a counter date/time that will work to. But first, ask her some questions and warm her up to you a bit by chatting on briefly.

You should read the DJ Bible. The link is at the bottom of this page
 
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As pook says you should do yuor role of being a man:
She is girly when she puts make up and you should show your sexual side.
Do the kiss test and if it's an OK do you job.
 
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