Knowing the "Game",but not implementing?

[youngmack]

Is knowing the game,rules of the game, and how girls think enough?

I find that i know the game moderately. But i don't think i'm as successful as i should be.

My problem is that i don't know how to "spit game" It doesn't make any sense to me..How do you "spit game"? I see threads about "i was spitting game to this girl and blah blah blah....." it always has me discombobulated.

Is knowing "game" and "spitting game" identical? Or are they two different concepts i must learn? If so how do i learn to "spit game?"

P.S. I've asked something similar to this before but i barely got any response or help.

 

[bigneil]

As with any science, there is theory and practice.

You can read tons of books on a subject, but until you actually implement the strategy outlined you will not fully understand the elements of finesse required. Where to use force and how much pressure to apply, etc.

We will always be students. By the time a man can read a woman like a book he needs bifocals.

 

[DonJuanabe]

Forget lines.

Game is 1) how you feel about yourself and 2) having that be portrayed to women. Top tier game can be described as: natural, confident, funny, intriguing, slightly ****y (due to confidence), even-tempered, strong-willed, assertive, challenging.

This has to describe YOU, not the lines you say, in order to get you anywhere. While some don't like this label, it is Alpha, and it is what women desire.

 

[zekko]

This thread seems to be going the same way the last one was. I don't think the OP wants to know what "game" is, he wants to know what "spitting game" is.

When you "spit game", I think that specifically refers to how you talk to a girl. It's what you say to her and how you say it. It's like in hip hop, "spit" means talk.

Now how you talk to a girl you're trying to seduce probably varies from person to person. I suppose most people have a certain strategy that works for them.

 

[Chamber36]

I think I can answer the OP's question. I remember when I was 18, the same guy who recommended I read "The Game" said I should, quote, "spit some game" at a certain hot chick who was sitting a few tables from us at the club.

I was quite confused when he said this and couldn't think of anything to say to the girl. Didn't approach.

You are lucky though, OP, that you are only 17. You've stumbled upon the forum at a young age. I lost my virginity at 17. The girl did most of the work though. Did it through natural confidence and ignorance. Chicks your age don't really expect much from a guy though except that he looks good and smells nice. So you are at an advantage that you know more about game than most. You're young though so you need to let the information soak in for a while.

See, game is more than just verbal. Only about 5-10% of the communication between you and a chick you meet is verbal. Most of it depends on body language.

When I talk to a chick I basically try to relate to them. I don't try to "spit game", all I do is lead the conversation. I naturally know in which direction to lead the conversation. I show genuine interest, I tease them, I make sexual innuendos/puns. It all depends on the girl too, you never know how she will receive you. All you can do is approach and see how they receive you then talk to them. If the girl wants to talk about casual stuff like the weather, then you talk about that and leave the game for another chick. You can lead the conversation wherever you want, but you can't expect it to go a certain way. You've got to stay outcome independent. When you approach, you never know what might happen. You might get a nipple flash, she might just want to talk about golf or she might not talk to you at all. It's like playing a slot machine. So just remember that you never know what might happen and keep it playful. But you gotta be like water, as Bruce Lee said, and roll with the punches and go with the flow. Spitting game is a 1-trick horse.

 

[cremasta7]

Think of it as like being 'in the zone' when you're playing sport.

You feel comfortable with what you're doing and you're getting the results you want.

The mistake is thinking that everyone has the same 'game'. That you should be doing the same as what someone else on this forum says they do.

Just keep experimenting and you'll soon find what suits you, you'll know when you've found it because the girls will think the sun shines out of your ar$e.

 

[perseverance]

Theory is meaningless without implementation.

 

[SoSuave666]

Dudes. "Spitting game" is just another way of being witty. Everyone has their style of wit. Use it. If you are witty enough in conversation without being overly sarcastic, you'll build attraction. Another aspect of game is more the "how" and "when." You know, how to close, and when to escalate. The final aspect is remaining in a steady, constant, "alpha" state. Can't waiver or those sh!t tests will get ya.

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

Is knowing the game,rules of the game, and how girls think enough?

I find that i know the game moderately. But i don't think i'm as successful as i should be.

My problem is that i don't know how to "spit game" It doesn't make any sense to me..How do you "spit game"? I see threads about "i was spitting game to this girl and blah blah blah....." it always has me discombobulated.

Is knowing "game" and "spitting game" identical? Or are they two different concepts i must learn? If so how do i learn to "spit game?"

P.S. I've asked something similar to this before but i barely got any response or help.

You barely got any response because it's kind of a weird question.

Maybe English isn't your first language. "Spitting game" is synonymous with "talking". So any time you see/hear the term spitting game, just replace it in your head with "talking".

Spitting game can be the guy at the club saying, "Hey, girl. What's that you're drinking?"

Or it can be the guy at the grocery store who asks a cute girl, "Do you prefer regular Cheerios or Honey Nut?"

It's basically starting a conversation with a woman with the intent of flirting with her. That's all it is. There's no deep, hardcore definition. Spitting game is talking.

 

[backseatjuan]

You need to focus less on the stressful how do I implement it and start living your life. Go to a gym and work on your body. Go fishing, go to movies, hang out at the mall see what's selling. Join a social club to your liking, like a car club, go to meets. Go to events like calle ocho or something in your town. In other words start living. When an opportunity comes up make friends with an alpha male. The two of you will hang out together and you will learn to act out on your desires. That's right, instead of looking for women go find a man.

 

[youngmack]

Ah ha..I finally get it.. I know what i must do. Thanks a lot bros !