"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Knowing if she's playing hard to get..or just doesn't want you

Elf2

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 4, 2006
Messages
53
Reaction score
0
Age
37
Location
cali
How does one know if the girl is playing hard to get or just doesn't want you?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Maximus Rex

Banned
Joined
Apr 8, 2005
Messages
2,265
Reaction score
446
Location
Villa Regis
Elf, you question is too vague. Be more specific and read the thread by yours truly "9 Signs of Little and No Interest," and see if they apply to you.
 

Elf2

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 4, 2006
Messages
53
Reaction score
0
Age
37
Location
cali
Ah sorry about that, but I read you're thread and I guess she lost interest. :(

NEXT
 
Top