"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Know Your Personality (And Even More: Know Theirs)

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GetFit66 said:
So how do we apply this day to day? I'm seeing alot of issues for it. Personality can be changed IMO, it's a temporary thing. Also at any one point in time do you always just fit under one personality type?
The great strategist Sun Tzu wrote: "If you know yourself and your enemy, in hundred battles you will have a hundred victories"

Understanding who you are helps with your inner game, which puts you on the right path to improve your outer game.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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frighteningly accurate .....looks like i need to find myself some implementors

i love coming up with brilliant ideas and strategies however actually putting them into fruition is another story :rolleyes:

also nobody is able to manipulate people like i can often preparing 3/4 steps ahead giving a clear link to the devils advocate description
 
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