"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

know when it's time for a break

backbreaker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2002
Messages
11,546
Reaction score
572
Location
monrovia, CA
There is a saying in AA, never make a decision when you are HALT; Hungry, Angry, Lonely or Tired.

Sometimes you need to know when to "shut it down".
I have this very very bad. I am workaholic. i push myself and sometimes when i push myself i make decisions that when i wake up in the morning I'm like backbreaker WTF man come on you know better. It's the same thing with women.

never make decisions on how deal with women after being rejected, or make generalizations about women when you haven't had one in a while or one has gotten under your skin.

At that point it's best you shut it down and take a break from your decision making and come back when you have a clear head.

say you go out and you are hitting the mall up and trying to get numbers. you go and get shoot down by every last girl you talk to. leaving the mall you say "all women are *****s! all they care about is this this and this"

that's not your rational you talking that's your hurt ego talking. in a situation like that it's best to leave the issue alone for a few days and come back and revisit it in a more rational fashion otherwise you will have this entire caste belief system setup off emotional irrational decisions.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Nik TPT

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 9, 2012
Messages
54
Reaction score
0
Nice tip! Never thought about it like that.
 
Top