"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Know thy target
- Thread starter Warrior74
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Warrior74 said:
This part was awesome....
4. Observe how he carries himself. Red flags include:
* Swagger
* Smirk
* Touches women carelessly – lots of hand on the lower back behavior
* Grinds on the dance floor with anyone
* Extroverted, enjoys being the center of attention
* Eye f*cking, or excessive direct eye contact
* Moves into your personal space boldly
These are all signs that you are not likely to be someone special over a period of time. Men like this go from hot to cold with the flip of a switch. If you observe this behavior when you meet a guy, don’t even give him a shot, he is bad news.
The chick writer who made this article then proceeds to turn off her laptop, and get plowed out by the dude with swagger and a smirk.
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It's.....It's beautiful!
I must do all this. Believe me, everything she said all the females need to be careful of, actually is attractive to them.
Sure you being all chivalrous will make her say "d'awww he is soooo sweeeeet!" while her labia curls inward.
I must do all this. Believe me, everything she said all the females need to be careful of, actually is attractive to them.
Sure you being all chivalrous will make her say "d'awww he is soooo sweeeeet!" while her labia curls inward.