"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Know anything about rapists?

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I tried a google search but i still dont know much.

I basically want to know how rapists are formed and why they rape women?? <-...er, man i cant believe i automatically said women,gg social programming, lol. both genders get raped. anyways..

From what i read its more of a violent act then a sexual one.

I was wondering if rapists become so, maybe because they were really desperate... but since rape is more violent than sexual this wouldnt be true?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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There are massive amounts of information regarding this topic to be found on google; to find it you have to try as many combinations of words and phrases as you can think of, and sit down and seperate the crap from the useful material. Here's an excerpt from the second result in my search:

Violent offenders who rape their victims fall into different categories. These are different types of rapists, who rape for different reasons and do it in different ways. Nonetheless, they are all monsters. Profiles created for each kind of rapist can be used to track down and punished the different types of rapists accordingly.

The Power Reassurance Rapist is the most common type of rapist. He usually will carry a weapon or claim to be, but will not use it or use any more force than necessary to fulfill his fantasy. He wants to express his power through sex, not physical injury. This offender spends an extended period of time with the victim, may compliment her appearance, and may even apologize for what he has just done to her.

The Power Assertive Rapist is primarily concerned with showing how "manly" he is through extreme violence. Unlike the Power Reassurance Rapist, this one is not concerned with the extent of suffering of the victim and usually uses more force than necessary to subdue her.

The Anger Retaliatory Rapist is even more violent. He has a deep hatred towards women and so lashes out against them. Many of his victims require hospitalization.

The Anger Excitation Rapist or sexual sadist is sexually stimulated by the amount of suffering his victim endures. He is the most dangerous type of rapist.

The Opportunistic Rapist will rape someone during another crime taking place, for instance, a robbery or kidnapping. He does not spend very much time with the victim and is usually either high or drunk during the ordeal.


Italicized text taken from this link.

I googled "psychological profile rapist".
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&q=psychological+profile+rapist

You might try googling the same, or perhaps "rapist made born" (since it automatically omits the word 'or', 'is', 'and', 'a', etc, it's unneccesary to type "is a rapist made or born"; or perhaps "how rapist made", "what causes rape", "types of rapists", etc etc etc. Good luck.
 

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I think the scary thing about it is that if there was any situation where anarchy previeled where you know the world would end tomorrow, everything that sadistic and bad in this world would multiply into an extreme numbers the very same day.

Humans will turn into animals if they knew the world would end tomorrow.
 

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Humans are animals.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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And it won't be long either, oil/wheat shortages are all it will take.

Strangely, most people won't though. They will just sit and die.

Interestingly if you have ever read anything by Viktor Frankl, you will know that quite often people transend the hierarchy of needs, acting in a very different way to that imagined.

I would fight for food and to protect my family, but I wouldn't rape a women just because there would be no consequences.

Now social conformity, that's the real scary one.
 

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There's a nice school of thought about it:

All men are violent rapists who want to dominate women.

Nuff said.
 
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