"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kissing.

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Kissing is one of the key ingridents in a good relationship, whether its a one night or 50 year relationship.

We concentrate on making the girl feel comfortable through what we say. We concentrate on making the girl feel attracted to us. We concentrate on touching the girl. We concentrate on being fun. We concentrate on being a challenge. We concentrate on being a sexual expert. and i'm sure you now get the drift.

We don't spend a whole lot of time on kissing.

And kissing is a fine art.

In a long term relationship it is important to kiss a girl at times when there is no chance of sex. She will realise you're attracted to her. She will feel a stronger connection with you. She will be hanging out for the next kiss, where there COULD be a chance of sex.

In a ONS the kissing could seal or break the deal. If you're a bad kisser or taste bad. She's going to lose any attraction she had to you. She may continue kissing you, but she won't want to spend the night with you.

If you can't kiss, you're probably to be no good in bed.
If you taste bad..... you probably have big hygene issues.

However.

If you kiss well, and you taste good. This girl will not want the night to end. -natural progression, sex.

For the One Night situation, you're best bet is to kiss softly, with not too much tongue. Keep your bodies close together, carress her hair, her neck, her body. Girls are far more receptive to kissing then guys. And i'm sure you'll find that you enjoy it alot aswell.

For a long term relationship, you will get to know what she likes, alot of tongue, a little tongue, no tongue, sucking her lips, licking her teeth. And so on.

Keep those mints handy guys. Its a sure way to turn a girl on, and very easy to master.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Remember to move your lips around when you kiss her. Friction when kissing is what activates more nerves and makes the women enjoy it a lot more... which can lead to other things.
 

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ok i kno this isnt the right section and i dont want to wh0re ur post , but im just curious ,ive been wanting to kiss this girl for a while , and my friend keeps tellin me if i like her i should to show her . but when i go to part her lips with my tongue , as said in the dj bible to doubling her interest, should she know where im going from here ? like what have u guys encountered when it came to this ?
 

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Originally posted by Kcman
ok i kno this isnt the right section and i dont want to wh0re ur post , but im just curious ,ive been wanting to kiss this girl for a while , and my friend keeps tellin me if i like her i should to show her . but when i go to part her lips with my tongue , as said in the dj bible to doubling her interest, should she know where im going from here ? like what have u guys encountered when it came to this ?
ok hold on a minute.

i'm going to assume that you've never kissed a girl before.

how about this.

start with kissing her on the lips.
maybe pull a way a bit, smile at her, and then move your hand to the back of her head, pull her in a again. and open mouth kiss her.
when the mouth is open, the tongue will slide on in.

your putting your ass on the line. but if u don't do it, you'll never know. if you do do it, and she says no, atleast you know. if u do it and she says yes. well. soon you'll be able to have your own thread teachign people to kiss :)

good luck
 

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There is no rules for kissing, every girl will be different. The best bet is to feel how she is kissing and keep around that level.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah, so if she sticks her tongue down your throat, you know she means business ;).
 

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no, some girls are just lousy kissers. :)
 

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cool , thx guys :)
 

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I think the kissing is a rapport technique to get you intrested in HER.

I care only if she delivers the goods :eek:
 
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