"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I-am-someone

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Hey guys,


I have a problem. This may seem like a small problem, but it's starting to annoy the hell out of me.

Whenever I kiss, my teeth cut into my girlfriend's lips.

I can't do anything about it, it just seems to keep on happening. I have no overbite, and my teeth are all properly positioned. This problem is starting to become pretty annoying, because however much she wants to kiss me, there's about a 50/50 chance it'll hurt.

I may be doing something horribly wrong, but I can't recall changing the way I kiss over the last few months. It only started a while ago.


Anybody have any tips?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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petah2001

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Is your jaw relaxed when you kiss? I can't imagine myself applying enough pressure to my jaw to effectively bite someone while i am kissing someone.
 

realsmoothie

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Is it your front teeth? Mine are sharp too... you can go to a dentist and they can file them pretty easy!
 

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I-am-someone said:
Hey guys,


I have a problem. This may seem like a small problem, but it's starting to annoy the hell out of me.

Whenever I kiss, my teeth cut into my girlfriend's lips.

I can't do anything about it, it just seems to keep on happening. I have no overbite, and my teeth are all properly positioned. This problem is starting to become pretty annoying, because however much she wants to kiss me, there's about a 50/50 chance it'll hurt.

I may be doing something horribly wrong, but I can't recall changing the way I kiss over the last few months. It only started a while ago.


Anybody have any tips?

maybe you lips are too small?
 

amoka

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Dentist can be helpful in situations such as this.....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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