"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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kissing with lips closed and open

rmark1

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Hi

I am an certified AFC .So I decided to change things . I met this girl shower with her presents.She kissed me couple of times on my lips with closed lips .So next time when I met her I kissed her with my lips open on her bottom lip and repeated few times .She didn't get angry but said she didn't feel comfortable with this .What the heck is that .whts the diference between closed lip kissing and open lip.now she is not responding to my messages( messaged her 1.5 hours ago) .Did I finished the relation ship , as she mentioned before that I a in the friend zone . so I decided to change the things . any suggestions from Don jon
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yea, go for it. If she won't give you a sensual kiss, she is probably incapable of an orgarm unless you step it up and escalate.

Make sure to brush your teeth and get it done.
 

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Dear RMark,
Closed lip kisses are a Woman saying she is not interested in a physical relationship.....Unless she is from China,whose Women tend not to kiss,probably because of the poor state of Oral Hygiene in that Country!...In your case you threw yourself at her,showing desperation....One never buys presents until at least you have bedded the wench!....No she is being like Groucho Marx,who always maintained that any Club that accepted him for Membership,wasn't worth joining!
So she's not returning calls?sure indication she has nexted you....Small potatoes,just move on,when you have dated say ten babes in a Month then you will have a better idea of the level of Birds you can realistically get something happening with...Rejection is part of the Scene,best learn to handle it!
 

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so guys need help . She called me next day and settled for a meeting on dinner. When the next day I reminded her on hour before dinner she said she is very busy with the ofice work blah blah and very sorry .In response to this I just say ok.I was behaving loike an AFc but this forum gave me that courage , now what to do I willt ry to maintain silence for few weeks until she calls me or other wise ia min dange rof drawn back to my AFC status .any good advise from Daon Jaun will be appreciated. As most of you wil say that leave her and pursue others but I want that lady .SOS
 
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