"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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kissing with lips closed and open

rmark1

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Hi

I am an certified AFC .So I decided to change things . I met this girl shower with her presents.She kissed me couple of times on my lips with closed lips .So next time when I met her I kissed her with my lips open on her bottom lip and repeated few times .She didn't get angry but said she didn't feel comfortable with this .What the heck is that .whts the diference between closed lip kissing and open lip.now she is not responding to my messages( messaged her 1.5 hours ago) .Did I finished the relation ship , as she mentioned before that I a in the friend zone . so I decided to change the things . any suggestions from Don jon
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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5string

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Yea, go for it. If she won't give you a sensual kiss, she is probably incapable of an orgarm unless you step it up and escalate.

Make sure to brush your teeth and get it done.
 

Scaramouche

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Dear RMark,
Closed lip kisses are a Woman saying she is not interested in a physical relationship.....Unless she is from China,whose Women tend not to kiss,probably because of the poor state of Oral Hygiene in that Country!...In your case you threw yourself at her,showing desperation....One never buys presents until at least you have bedded the wench!....No she is being like Groucho Marx,who always maintained that any Club that accepted him for Membership,wasn't worth joining!
So she's not returning calls?sure indication she has nexted you....Small potatoes,just move on,when you have dated say ten babes in a Month then you will have a better idea of the level of Birds you can realistically get something happening with...Rejection is part of the Scene,best learn to handle it!
 

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so guys need help . She called me next day and settled for a meeting on dinner. When the next day I reminded her on hour before dinner she said she is very busy with the ofice work blah blah and very sorry .In response to this I just say ok.I was behaving loike an AFc but this forum gave me that courage , now what to do I willt ry to maintain silence for few weeks until she calls me or other wise ia min dange rof drawn back to my AFC status .any good advise from Daon Jaun will be appreciated. As most of you wil say that leave her and pursue others but I want that lady .SOS
 
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