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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Kissing Technique

Juice09

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There's a girl I've been talking to in my 3rd period. Today in particular, she seemed to really be enjoying my presence and my ****y and funny.

Near the end of class she puts a cough drop in her mouth and tells me: "Ewww, this tastes weird! Can you get it out?" I'm about to stick my fingers in her mouth and she's like "Eww, I know where those fingers have been, use your mouth." It caught me off guard, I'm like "What?"

She starts to lean in towards me. Suddenly it dawned on me what she was trying to do, I grabbed the back of her head and started to move in towards her. I stop within an inch of her face, and say "Nah, it'll dirty up my pearly whites." She gives me a disappointed look, than I kiss her.

Anyway, my question is: How effective do you think that cough drop technique would work if the roles were reversed and a guy did it to a girl?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Five To One

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dude you kissed her in the classroom? nice.

I have never been a fan of kissing routines.

If she likes you then she will like the kiss, if she doesnt like you then she wont.

Just wait till a good pause in the conversation, use eye contant and smile, and then lean in. Iv done the same damn thing hundreds of times, you dont need a slick way to get a girl to kiss you.
 

It's-Me

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Five To One said:
Just wait till a good pause in the conversation, use eye contant and smile, and then lean in. Iv done the same damn thing hundreds of times, you dont need a slick way to get a girl to kiss you.
Same here.
 

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lol this has to be a joke; or you used your classroom-fantasy story to cover up a pickup line that you came up with
 

Smack

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Juice09 said:
There's a girl I've been talking to in my 3rd period. Today in particular, she seemed to really be enjoying my presence and my ****y and funny.

Near the end of class she puts a cough drop in her mouth and tells me: "Ewww, this tastes weird! Can you get it out?" I'm about to stick my fingers in her mouth and she's like "Eww, I know where those fingers have been, use your mouth." It caught me off guard, I'm like "What?"

She starts to lean in towards me. Suddenly it dawned on me what she was trying to do, I grabbed the back of her head and started to move in towards her. I stop within an inch of her face, and say "Nah, it'll dirty up my pearly whites." She gives me a disappointed look, than I kiss her.

Anyway, my question is: How effective do you think that cough drop technique would work if the roles were reversed and a guy did it to a girl?
Not very. I'm not a fan of this whole indirect approach - just man up, wait for a pause in the conversation, and go in for it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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