"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kissing Technique

Juice09

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There's a girl I've been talking to in my 3rd period. Today in particular, she seemed to really be enjoying my presence and my ****y and funny.

Near the end of class she puts a cough drop in her mouth and tells me: "Ewww, this tastes weird! Can you get it out?" I'm about to stick my fingers in her mouth and she's like "Eww, I know where those fingers have been, use your mouth." It caught me off guard, I'm like "What?"

She starts to lean in towards me. Suddenly it dawned on me what she was trying to do, I grabbed the back of her head and started to move in towards her. I stop within an inch of her face, and say "Nah, it'll dirty up my pearly whites." She gives me a disappointed look, than I kiss her.

Anyway, my question is: How effective do you think that cough drop technique would work if the roles were reversed and a guy did it to a girl?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Five To One

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dude you kissed her in the classroom? nice.

I have never been a fan of kissing routines.

If she likes you then she will like the kiss, if she doesnt like you then she wont.

Just wait till a good pause in the conversation, use eye contant and smile, and then lean in. Iv done the same damn thing hundreds of times, you dont need a slick way to get a girl to kiss you.
 

It's-Me

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Five To One said:
Just wait till a good pause in the conversation, use eye contant and smile, and then lean in. Iv done the same damn thing hundreds of times, you dont need a slick way to get a girl to kiss you.
Same here.
 

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lol this has to be a joke; or you used your classroom-fantasy story to cover up a pickup line that you came up with
 

Smack

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Juice09 said:
There's a girl I've been talking to in my 3rd period. Today in particular, she seemed to really be enjoying my presence and my ****y and funny.

Near the end of class she puts a cough drop in her mouth and tells me: "Ewww, this tastes weird! Can you get it out?" I'm about to stick my fingers in her mouth and she's like "Eww, I know where those fingers have been, use your mouth." It caught me off guard, I'm like "What?"

She starts to lean in towards me. Suddenly it dawned on me what she was trying to do, I grabbed the back of her head and started to move in towards her. I stop within an inch of her face, and say "Nah, it'll dirty up my pearly whites." She gives me a disappointed look, than I kiss her.

Anyway, my question is: How effective do you think that cough drop technique would work if the roles were reversed and a guy did it to a girl?
Not very. I'm not a fan of this whole indirect approach - just man up, wait for a pause in the conversation, and go in for it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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