"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kissing skills

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you have a sister you might be able to practice with?
 

Flabbergasped?

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Rofl, you guys are douchebags.

The best way to improve is to have some chick you fool around with. Sorta like an FB, but one you just make out with for educational purposes. It helps if you don't have a mondo-crush on her, and it provides both the field experience and feedback needed for you to learn.

Best advice I can give is, use your hands. Roam her body, makes 'em squirm.
 
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Well, you know there is no real substitute for just getting out there and doing it. But saying that, I would recommend visualisation. Just about any skill can be improved upon through the use of intense visualisation. Watch classic kissing scenes in movies to get an idea. Observe not just the lip movements, but the movement of the whole body, particularly the hands. When you have done this, you should be able to visualise yourself in the same situation. Imagine just exactly what it would feel like and incorporate all five senses to make it more effective. This can be done to improve any skill in your sexual repertoire.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I usually tilt my head slightly, mouth partially open. Eyes are closed except for one that is open just enough that it still looks closed, so that I can observe her face and lips as much as possible (so that I can adjust my mouth or whatever). I meet her mouth slowly, kiss a little like that and lightly suck her lower lip as I pull off and repeat. I do this a couple of times and then switch to her upper lip. I try to follow what she is doing, and tongue usage matches her tongue usage. Sometimes, I will use the tip of my tongue in the kiss if she hasn't yet, to see if she is receptive, sticking it in just a little and then pulling it out. I like to place at least one hand on her cheeks, usually with the other one lightly touching the back of her head or her back.

If the chick and I start getting turned on and gropy, I start to kiss harder and more passionately, and usually start kissing her cheeks, neck, throat, as I start moving down...
 
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