Kissing girls on the cheek greeting/ goodbye

[BongDuy]

so i rarely get this from women and i dont know how to initiate it very well, but this girl name Brenda came up to me two days ago and for some reason, she was excited to see me. so excited, she ran up to me and hugged me very tight, and kissed me the the cheek. i kiss her on the cheek and she kisses mine every time we greet/ or leave each other.

( im gunna try and kiss close, but i think i may of messed something up because i feel like she is losing interests, but thats another story)


The point is i love greeting girls this way. When i tried to initiate this to a girl name Kat, she totally denied and i felt kinda stupid. *a little background info on me and kat* im asian and shes black. she always calls me her "boyfriend" even though we dont hang out much, and today she called me her husband. so i told her to kiss me on the cheek goodbye and she looked at me like i was crazy.

I noticed some spanish people do this very often, and im just curious, as an Asian guy, do you think it will flow well? do you guys kiss girls on the cheek as well? Info please

 

[Jblitz59]

you dont tell her, you just do it... -face palm-

 

[thedoc]

you dont tell her, you just do it... -face palm-

Yeah really, if your somewhat close to a girl just do it. Maybe if she's your best friend or something weird than that could be an exception. But if you go for it with most girls they won't say no. To be honest, most girls initiate it with me first even after hanging out once so which kind of suggests its not really anything special lol. Just don't seem nervous or freaked out by it =/

 

[Joe Stud]

I do it often, and it's accepted

 

[RMM]

In Spain, where I originally come from, two kisses on the cheek is pretty much the standard greeting in an informal setting - when greeting a girl that is. You'll find that to be pretty similar in many Latin cultures.

Shouldn't be a problem. I still do it all the time, sometimes they react surprised but because it's so natural to me, it'S very rarely a bad thing - and a great filter for stuck-up *****es.

 

[Hughman]

I'm half-Greek, lived in Greece for several years, so double-cheek kissing is a natural instinct to me.

If the girl is any way warm/receptive of you, and you've met once (and she's not from a culture that uses cheek kissing as a greeting), just go ahead and do it. All about the intuition.

 

[Phenomenal One]

Everytime you meet a certain woman, kiss her on the cheek.
after doing it everytime you two meet, she'll come to expect it.

I still remember when i started greeting woman with a hug & kiss on the cheek.
after a couple of times it became normal and something that was expected from me.
My problem in the past has been when woman would refuse the hug/kiss and i'd be taken a back by it and when i'd greet a woman one day with a hug/kiss, another day with a handshake (with female acquaintances i have'nt seen in a while) .

 

[909pua]

so i rarely get this from women and i dont know how to initiate it very well, but this girl name Brenda came up to me two days ago and for some reason, she was excited to see me. so excited, she ran up to me and hugged me very tight, and kissed me the the cheek. i kiss her on the cheek and she kisses mine every time we greet/ or leave each other.

( im gunna try and kiss close, but i think i may of messed something up because i feel like she is losing interests, but thats another story)


The point is i love greeting girls this way. When i tried to initiate this to a girl name Kat, she totally denied and i felt kinda stupid. *a little background info on me and kat* im asian and shes black. she always calls me her "boyfriend" even though we dont hang out much, and today she called me her husband. so i told her to kiss me on the cheek goodbye and she looked at me like i was crazy.

I noticed some spanish people do this very often, and im just curious, as an Asian guy, do you think it will flow well? do you guys kiss girls on the cheek as well? Info please

if she kisses you, that's the doorway to her panties! don't hesitate just tell her straight out you want to fvk her and see what she says. if she says yes, go get a room, if not, then just leave her alone and ditch her.

 

[BongDuy]

what if she kisses other guys on the cheek? when i noticed she pecked other guys as well, i said " well now my kiss isn't so special" and she said she only does it to close friends.

I think i may tease her by not kissing her anymore, and when she says " why dont you kiss me on the cheek anymore?" ill say "so you want a kiss?" and just go straight for the kiss close!
=D

 

[Deniska]

In many countries, guys who are heterosexual, kiss each other on a cheek, because its part of the culture.

Kissing a girls on a cheek to greet her, should be natural to you as breathing.

A couple of my female friends with whom i'm good friends with, kiss me on a cheek half a dozen times as a greeting.

So dont think about it and kiss away. Pull a girl in and give her a big smooch with a big smile.