"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kissing for AFC's/Nice Guys

Alchemystic

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Note: This post is for AFCs and Nice Guys. Pick - up artist and Don Juans, please get out of this thread!
This is for Nice Guys who haven't had their first kiss or for those who have problems with landing the first kiss or for people with kissing sticking points.

I have been reading this book about “I am Ok, Your Ok” and the book instructed me to always ask myself questions when I get angry so as to activate my neocortex or the thinking logical part of the brain so I would be happy or at least emotionally numb and stop the sad emotions that I feel when the limbic region is activated.

What was the lesson here?

The lesson I learned was more than that, I learned we can stimulate or activate specific regions of our brain.
I learned we can stimulate or deactivate the limbic region by asking questions and this is the basis for bypassing the logical barriers into having sex with a girl!

If you ask a girl to give you a kiss then your are not going to get it because you will activate the neocortex and you’ll have to deal with all her possible logical resistance like getting pregnant, being a ***** and disease but if you say something like “I love to kiss your lips”, then, you will be bypassing all her logical concerns.
Asking a girl for a kiss would also make you sound like a wimpy dork.


An example of sex within 1 minute(in a boarding house) a friend of mind sucks the girl’s ear, got naked, kiss her on the lips and just started ripping her clothes for sex. That’s bypassing her logical barriers by assuming attraction. Never let logic overcome her emotion.

Of course, there are other more advanced techniques but it will be on a different post. Besides this idea of bypassing her logical barriers can also be applied to sex but be patient, let's start step by step first okay? We will discuss the other techniques eventually on a different post.


Everything is seduction, you just have to set your mind to it.

P.S.
And No! You do not have to follow the exact line of saying "I love to kiss your lips". Be creative and find you own line will yeah. The line is merely a prop/tool.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Adam B

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This is a great post. I've kicked a lot of my AFC ways, but that first kiss with a new girl is always tough for me.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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cool.

Another thing i would recommend is to watch some of the Gamblers (puatraining) free videos. This particular video is called Stealth Seduction, where he demonstrates how to build sexual tension, from where initiating a kiss is piece of cake.

Because we all know that going for the kiss while talking to a non-sense topic, a normal conversation, is awkward.

But lets put it like this. You're talking something stupid, and you slowly start pausing, while looking deep into her eyes, and with a smirk on your face you throw looks from her eyes to her lips and vice versa. This is one technique.

But basically, watch that video. You have tons of stuff and its fvcking free. First kiss have never been easier =D.
 

Alchemystic

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To each his own I guess.
But the main lesson is...... Avoiding triggering her logical brain.
From that lesson, you can virtually create any kind of technique you desire.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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