"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Kissing for AFC's/Nice Guys

Alchemystic

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Note: This post is for AFCs and Nice Guys. Pick - up artist and Don Juans, please get out of this thread!
This is for Nice Guys who haven't had their first kiss or for those who have problems with landing the first kiss or for people with kissing sticking points.

I have been reading this book about “I am Ok, Your Ok” and the book instructed me to always ask myself questions when I get angry so as to activate my neocortex or the thinking logical part of the brain so I would be happy or at least emotionally numb and stop the sad emotions that I feel when the limbic region is activated.

What was the lesson here?

The lesson I learned was more than that, I learned we can stimulate or activate specific regions of our brain.
I learned we can stimulate or deactivate the limbic region by asking questions and this is the basis for bypassing the logical barriers into having sex with a girl!

If you ask a girl to give you a kiss then your are not going to get it because you will activate the neocortex and you’ll have to deal with all her possible logical resistance like getting pregnant, being a ***** and disease but if you say something like “I love to kiss your lips”, then, you will be bypassing all her logical concerns.
Asking a girl for a kiss would also make you sound like a wimpy dork.


An example of sex within 1 minute(in a boarding house) a friend of mind sucks the girl’s ear, got naked, kiss her on the lips and just started ripping her clothes for sex. That’s bypassing her logical barriers by assuming attraction. Never let logic overcome her emotion.

Of course, there are other more advanced techniques but it will be on a different post. Besides this idea of bypassing her logical barriers can also be applied to sex but be patient, let's start step by step first okay? We will discuss the other techniques eventually on a different post.


Everything is seduction, you just have to set your mind to it.

P.S.
And No! You do not have to follow the exact line of saying "I love to kiss your lips". Be creative and find you own line will yeah. The line is merely a prop/tool.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This is a great post. I've kicked a lot of my AFC ways, but that first kiss with a new girl is always tough for me.
 

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cool.

Another thing i would recommend is to watch some of the Gamblers (puatraining) free videos. This particular video is called Stealth Seduction, where he demonstrates how to build sexual tension, from where initiating a kiss is piece of cake.

Because we all know that going for the kiss while talking to a non-sense topic, a normal conversation, is awkward.

But lets put it like this. You're talking something stupid, and you slowly start pausing, while looking deep into her eyes, and with a smirk on your face you throw looks from her eyes to her lips and vice versa. This is one technique.

But basically, watch that video. You have tons of stuff and its fvcking free. First kiss have never been easier =D.
 

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To each his own I guess.
But the main lesson is...... Avoiding triggering her logical brain.
From that lesson, you can virtually create any kind of technique you desire.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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